Reborn 1980: Marry a rough soldier

If you live in a dormitory in a factory, you can sleep more in the morning, and you can go to the cafeteria to eat after getting up, and you don't have to cook by yourself. It's so trouble-free and convenient.

You can also build a good relationship with everyone, so if anything happens, they can know it as soon as possible.

So they have money in their hands these years. After all, they don't have much money to spend. The factory provides food and accommodation.

Every time I go home, I bring a lot of things for my family. After all, they often can't go home, so they pack big and small bags every time they go back.

Can you prepare everything for the family to eat for a year?After all, when they are busy, they cannot go back once a year.

So they bring a lot of things with them every time they go back. Maybe they feel a little guilty because they can't be with them after all.

I can only make up for them in this way. I earn money to give my family a better life. Now that I have money, of course I have to buy more things for them.

Originally, after they had made money in the past two years, they did not want grandpa and the others to work in the fields, but the old man did not listen to advice.

They were unwilling to ask him to come to the capital with him. After all, their good friends and partners were all there.

They were afraid that they would not get used to it after coming to the capital. Besides, the children were all at work, so they were bored at home with nothing to do.

Even if they want to go out for a walk, they are afraid of not finding the way. After all, they feel that they are old and they are afraid of causing trouble to their children.

So I told them many times, but they didn't agree, and they still farmed those fields at home every year.

Later, Xia Jin felt relieved. After all, they looked quite happy. There had been no problems in the past two years, and they had their bodies checked every year.

Since there is nothing to do, just do whatever you want. Anyway, I can't persuade him. If they don't let them do it, they won't be happy.

So their plan was temporarily shelved. After all, no one was coming here, so they didn't buy another house and renovate it.

That is, they have less time to go back every year, and their families miss them very much, but if they are asked to come to the capital, they are afraid of spending more money and causing trouble.

Anyway, it's quite contradictory. Xia Jindu has been in the capital for more than three years, and his father and grandfather have only been here once.

When they came, Brother Xia and the others were running business outside. Xia Jin originally wanted to take them for a walk and have fun, but they remembered the things at home and went back after only a few days.

This can be regarded as a pity. Xia Jin thought that next year, he would definitely let him stay for a while and let him play here.

Where does the family have so much space for him to work on?Besides, you can come here during your free time. When the food in the fields is harvested, they will have nothing to do at home.

Just stay here for a while, and you can spend some time with your two brothers.

By then, you might feel that the capital is getting better and you won’t want to go home. It just so happens that everyone can live together, which is great.

The main reason is that they are too far away from Xia Jin. Even if something happens to them, Xia Jin won't be able to know it immediately and can't go back immediately.

Even if you take a plane or take a bus in the county, you may not be able to get home in one or two days, so this is very inconvenient.

Fortunately, my body is strong. If something goes wrong, the juniors like them won't be around, and they will regret it then.

It's different in the capital. The doctors in the hospitals here are also better equipped. If you encounter any problems, you can get effective treatment as soon as possible.

As the old people get older, they must have problems of one kind or another. This is inevitable, so Xia Jin has always wanted to take them over.

Not just him, everyone else also had this plan, but it just didn't make sense.

They are so stubborn that they can't do this or that, they just can't worry about the land at home.

But everyone also understands that after all, they have been dealing with the land all their lives, and it would be a bit uncomfortable for them to move here all of a sudden.

So Xia Jin and the others wanted to gradually persuade them this year and next year, and then they agreed.

They can come here and give it a try first. If they are not happy, let's talk about it later. They can also go back. We must give them a chance as children.

Xia Jin thought that in a few years, people like them might come over on their own without them urging them. After all, his marriage was settled, but others did not.

How can they not be anxious when the time comes? They are anxious that their two brothers will not come back, and they will have no way to introduce them.

If they want their brother to marry a wife as soon as possible, they still have to come here, at least stay with their son, so that they can have the opportunity to introduce a wife to their son.

Otherwise, his son cannot work in the capital. He should introduce him to a girl from the village, and then the two places will be separated.

Even if they didn't talk about marriage, it was not convenient for the two of them when they first got along.Simply relying on phone calls or letters can easily cause problems.

So when the time comes, they will definitely be anxious. Even if it is for their son's future marriage, they will definitely come here to live in a hurry for two years.

Xia Jin thought that it would be great if they all wanted to work like her aunt.

They don't have to spend so much effort and try their best to persuade their family members. It's good to come out like their aunt.

In the past two years, my uncle and sister have also come here, mainly because of my sister. After something like that happened, my aunt wanted to bring her here with her.

After all, after a divorce in the village, a woman's reputation was not good, and some second-rate men would often come to harass her.

And the people in the village didn't care. Instead, they made some bad comments about the woman. No matter whose fault it was, in their eyes, the divorce shouldn't happen.

They always think that once a woman gets married, she should stay with him/her for the rest of her life, so divorce would be unruly.

It just shouldn't be done, and they always think that this woman must have done something wrong to get divorced.

It's obviously not the woman's fault, but as a result, they always habitually blame all the faults on the woman, while the man is perfectly invisible.

In the eyes of the older generation, things like domestic violence are not a big deal. They blame the woman for not having a child, and they don't want to ask the man to go for a checkup together.

They will only torture the woman over and over again, make them drink some traditional Chinese medicine, drink some things obtained through local methods, and make them suffer all kinds of torture, but in the end it still has no effect.