Traveling through books in the 70s: The group favors the Wang family’s little koi carp

Shen Jiang: "If you give it to your son, it belongs to your son. If you give it to your daughter, it also belongs to your daughter."

"They are my sons and daughters. They are all independent individuals, so the opportunities are the same for everyone. I will not let them give back to the family after they get the opportunity."

"I'm not incompetent as a father. I have to support my family with my children, so you said that giving opportunities to sons is good for the family, and giving opportunities to daughters is good for the future husband's family. I don't agree with this."

"In my heart as a father, it is enough for them to be good to themselves in everything."

"There is no such thing as their husband's family or their own family. They rely on their own opportunities to live a good life. It is enough for them to be worry-free in this life."

"When I get old, I will immediately separate the family. No one will take advantage of anyone. When I am an old man, I will not make trouble or go to my children's homes to point fingers."

"When the time comes, they can manage their own small family and live a peaceful and beautiful life. This is what I really want to say. There won't be any twists and turns."

Shen Jiang never thought that the iron rice bowl was so "iron" that it could be passed down from generation to generation.

Even if it is real iron, it will rust over time.

So he doesn't have the regrets that Tian Youtian said, as if the Shen family has lost something if their daughter takes away an 'iron rice bowl'. He is not that short-sighted.

Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.

not to mention……

Shen Jiang: "Nanny fought for this opportunity herself. She passed the exam based on her ability. I really want to let the two brats in my family go. They don't have Nanny's ability."

He spoke calmly, but Tian Youtian's jaw almost dropped when he heard it.

He really didn't understand Shen Jiang's thoughts, there was a generation gap.

In his opinion, the prosperity of the family is the prosperity, and the prosperity of the family must be given priority in everything.

But here in Shen Jiang, why do you seem to wish that the children below would stop taking advantage of each other and live their own lives?

Although such brothers can help each other if something goes wrong, but... they are not like a family after all!

It's a big family with many descendants. Which elder doesn't want to be the master of the family?

You have a higher seniority, and even the juniors have to listen to your farts. Which old man in the village didn't come here like this?

Who doesn’t enjoy this kind of treatment at home?

What do you think of Shen Jiang's words? Not only does he not want this treatment, but he doesn't care how his children live in the future?

How can this be possible? There is no old man at the helm of the family, so how can the little kids go through life.

This is not nonsense!

Another thing, even if the opportunity was won by Nannan herself, what does it matter? What’s wrong with the little girl sacrificing herself for the sake of the family?

How can a family be so 'fair' and fair? Can we still call it a family?

Tian Youtian looked down upon Shen Jiang's principle of not letting his son eat from his brother's bowl.

In his opinion, it's okay for the younger generation below to cut off some flesh and bleed some if they are promising but not promising. They are brothers. How can they take advantage and suck blood?

Shen Jiang's thoughts can be summed up in two words - selfish!

Tian Youtian was upset because he couldn't explain it to Shen Jiang. He stood up and waved his hands: "Come on, we brothers can't talk about this issue together anymore."

"If you can't do it, ask the people in the village. See if normal people think your calculation makes sense or do they think my words are reasonable."

"You, even though you left home at a young age and were heartbroken by your own brother, you don't understand the ways of the world."

……

"You damn person has sophistication in the world. He doesn't know anything about the world. You just listen to his nonsense."

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Shen Jiang went home at noon, and Wang Chunhua happened to be chatting with his mother at his house.

Seeing that he was not in a high mood, the two old ladies asked him during the meal. Shen Jiang couldn't figure out what Tian Youtian meant, so he took the opportunity to tell the two old ladies about today's incident.

Shen Jiang: "I just can't figure out why Tian Youtian is so concerned about our family's affairs all of a sudden."

He didn't understand, but he left such an angry remark as if he was having trouble, and then walked away angrily.

Which child in the family was given the opportunity to go to the first middle school, and what does it have to do with Tian Youtian?

It was precisely because of what Shen Jiang said that Wang Chunhua curled her lips and said what she said above: "Don't listen to Tian Youtian's nonsense, and talk about the world."

"He just bullied you because you didn't know his little thoughts. When you didn't do what he said, he became angry."

It would be unreasonable to be angry with such a person.

Mrs. Cai: "What's his little idea? What does he want Jiangzi to do? Why don't I know anything?"

Wang Chunhua: "What do you know? You are sitting at home every day and living a comfortable life. You don't care about anything."

Unexpectedly, I was scolded by the old sisters when I asked.

Mrs. Cai pursed her lips in grievance.

There really wasn't anything worth worrying about at home, especially when Old Shen and Shen Dahai, Shen Erhu and the others were 'fighting' every day.

I cried and howled about this and that.

She couldn't even watch the excitement, so she had no time to care about outside matters.

Mrs. Cai: "What's going on? There is a child in Tian Youtian's family who wanted to enter the County No. [-] Middle School but failed? So he is jealous when he sees that we let our daughter go to the County No. [-] Middle School to study?"

The old lady got angry when she said this: "Is this all he has? It's true that the older you get, the less narrow-minded you become."

She even gossiped in front of her son and made provocative remarks.

Wang Chunhua sneered: "Oh no, it's not his kid who wants to enter the County No. [-] Middle School, it's the girl from his house who wants to enter your house!"

"What?" Mrs. Cai suspected that she had misheard, "Come into our house? Who is in his family?"

The old lady thought about the Tian family and said, "There are no girls of similar age to Youwen and the others in the Tian family."

"Or are you targeting the children of our family? I haven't heard that any of his married daughters got divorced."

Shen Jiang: "..." When he thought of having Tian Youtian as his in-laws, he couldn't even eat lunch.

Wang Chunhua lowered her voice and gossiped: "I heard that he had a biological sister who was sent to the city when he was a child."

Were you sent to the city when you were a child?

Lao Tian has no relatives in the city, so this is...

Mrs. Cai also whispered back: "Child bride?"

Wang Chunhua slapped her thigh, and her meaning was obvious. Her old sister had hit the nail on the head!

Wang Chunhua: "Think about it, you were given as a child bride when you were a child, how can you not feel resentful in your heart?"

"Especially when my mother's family's life got better and my elder brother became the captain of our village's production brigade, how can I not feel resentful?"

Mrs. Cai thought for a while and said something fair: "It still depends on the score. If you meet a good family, you can be considered a city girl."

"Then you can't hate her. Life was really not good in our country in the early years. If she hadn't been sent away, she might not have survived."

"But if you meet a bad family, you should hate it or hate it. Who should let parents not feel sorry for their daughter and have to send a good daughter to the pit of fire?"

Wang Chunhua thought for a while: "That's what you said, but people's hearts, you can't tell. You may be happy or resentful when you are good, and you may have feelings for your mother's family."

Mrs. Cai didn't have time to discuss human nature with her, so she urged her: "Don't worry about what she thinks, just go on."

Wang Chunhua: "Then let me continue. Don't interrupt me. I found out the news recently when I saw more relatives moving around in the Tian family."

"It is said that at the beginning, Tian Youtian, the child bride's sister, had a pretty good life. The family she sent her to was not bad, but the boy at home had some physical defects."

"I have a physical defect but a good brain. I was afraid that it would be difficult to find a wife when I grew up, so I gave my son a child bride since he was a child."