"I think this is normal. I am also a parent's child. What's wrong with them coming to our home?"
Judging from Li Chaoyang's intentions, the matter was settled. They would come here, still under the guise of taking care of their child.
He would rather take care of the child himself than trouble the two elderly people.
How wonderful it is that he and Li Chaoyang are so carefree together, I can do whatever I want.
It's hard for the elderly to get along with each other. My mother often says to him that the most difficult thing to handle is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
He was terrified of being with his mother-in-law. Li Chaoyang didn't consider this because he was her biological son.
They are not related by blood at all.
"They're not that old, why do they have to live together? Have you ever considered how daring this is?"
"We've never been used to living together. If we did, we'd be restricted in every way."
“I am firmly against living together, and you’re not exactly kind-hearted to say that.”
“My mother is coming here to take care of me for a few days, but you absolutely refuse to let him come.”
"So it turns out you were saving a place for your parents, and you're even using this opportunity to let them stay at our house."
“Your parents are parents, but aren’t my parents also elderly? You can’t just think about them and not think about my mother.”
“I had already spoken to him and asked him to come and take care of me during my postpartum period. He agreed, but you just dismissed it all.”
"That's not all, you also want your parents to move in. How uncomfortable that will be for them!"
Lou Xiao'e argued her case forcefully and refused to back down, but he went a bit too far.
They only thought about his parents and didn't consider his feelings.
They're both elderly, so why should he be treated with utmost respect like his parents, but not like he can be treated like his own?
She is also an only child, without any brothers or sisters, and she will be the one to support her parents in the future.
Even if we're going to support them, the housing issue needs to be clarified. In the first place, we asked my sister-in-law and brother to take care of the elderly.
They also said that as long as they take care of the house, it will belong to them.
Now that they are supposed to take care of it, it's unclear whether the old house should also be returned to them.
Living in my house without any explanation, what's going on here?
Li Chaoyang never dreamed it would turn out this way. He thought that once he finished speaking, Lou Xiao'e would definitely agree.
She also said that she would help him take care of the elderly, and she even said something like that. I can't help but feel terrible.
It was completely different from what he had imagined, so he said to Lou Xiao'e.
“I never expected you to be this kind of person. No wonder Mom told me to come back and discuss this with you.”
“I also told him that there was no need to discuss this matter. Lou Xiao’e is a kind and understanding girl, especially when it comes to the elderly.”
"He'd love for you to move into my house. I was wrong, you're not like that. You're just selfish."
"You only think about yourself and not others. Your parents are not staying at our house to do nothing. They are here to help us take care of the children."
"You mentioned it when you were at your mother's house, that you would go back to work after giving birth."
"If you go to work, there will be no one to take care of the children."
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“This child belongs to the Li family, so naturally he should be taken care of by his grandparents.”
"What's wrong with that? You insist on giving the child to his maternal grandparents. Have you ever thought about how heartbroken they are!"
Li Chaoyang said this because he hadn't experienced it himself, and he wasn't considering the issue from his own perspective.
He has never lived with his in-laws before, and he doesn't know if he can handle it well.
It's not that he's heartless, it's that he's very rational. He's heard a lot about people living with their in-laws, and in the end, none of them had a good outcome.
He didn't want things to turn out this way, which is why he mentioned not letting them come here; it was also for the sake of the future.
He only let his mother stay here temporarily. Once the child is older and can be left alone, he can give the child to his mother.
Besides, a mother-in-law and a mother are not the same person and cannot be compared.
In front of her mother, she could act coquettishly and say the wrong thing, and her mother would forgive her without any problems.
She can't do that in front of her mother-in-law; she has to be very careful about what she says. It's not like she hasn't met her mother-in-law before.
She is a very strong-willed woman, and he also has a strong personality. It is a particularly painful thing for people with these kinds of personalities to get together.
"Do you think taking care of children is a wonderful thing? And you say I don't consider their feelings."
"Your parents are not young anymore, and asking them to take care of the children is just adding pressure to them."
"My parents take care of the children because they are young, and it's the most suitable thing for them to do it."
“Taking care of a new mother during her postpartum period is a very troublesome thing. You have to do a good job during this period, otherwise you will develop a lot of health problems.”
"By then it will be too late to regret it. I can boss my mother around as I please."
"He knows what I want to eat and what I don't like to eat, but my mother-in-law doesn't know my preferences."
"I'm too embarrassed to ask him for anything!"
“My mother said that this is a lifelong matter and we can’t just let it pass by in a muddle. I think what she said makes a lot of sense.”
"If you don't take good care of yourself during this postpartum period, you'll develop a lot of health problems, and you'll be the one suffering in the end!"
Li Chaoyang's biggest dilemma wasn't who would take care of him during his postpartum period; it was that he was thinking about bringing his parents to his home.
Lou Xiao'e exploded before he even brought up the fact that her family's house was going to be occupied by her brother and sister-in-law.
If you bring this up with him, he'll probably be so angry his lungs will explode.
Regardless of the circumstances, we still need to let him know, because we're going back to 067 in a couple of days to discuss things, and we need a result.
His mother is still waiting. His and Lou Xiao'e's statements are basically the same, both mentioning that living together would cause a lot of conflict.
He's too young; he patted his chest and assured his mother that such a conflict would never happen.
It turned out that he lacked experience; his mother knew Lou Xiao'e very well.
"Don't give me any of that high-sounding advice. I've figured it out. You just don't want to live with my family."
“You didn’t say that before we got married. You told me that you would take care of his parents with me.”
"Of all the blind dates I went on, I chose you."
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"It's because I saw that you are a kind-hearted girl."
"You're also very understanding and will treat my parents well. I was wrong. You're a selfish person."
"You're only thinking about your own interests, and you haven't taken care of anyone else."
Otherwise, this would be moral blackmail, and Lou Xiao'e was so angry that she didn't know what to say.
It's not that he doesn't want to take care of these two elderly people, it's that he hasn't made that plan yet.
If you stay for ten days or half a month, there is still a time limit, and this stay can be indefinite.
It's something that's hard for most people to accept, and it's a very unpleasant feeling, especially for him.
He doesn't want to deal with the mother-in-law/daughter-in-law relationship yet, because there are many people around him who have trouble handling this relationship.
In the end, the two went their separate ways; there are far too many cases like this.
The thought of all this sent chills down his spine. He didn't want to have any more conflicts with Li Chaoyang because of their poor relationship with the old man.
They are doing very well and lovingly without them; with them, they might not be as happy as they are now.
“You’re not on my side, and you can’t understand my difficulties. It’s not that I’m selfish and don’t want to be filial to our parents.”
"It's simply because they're still young; there's no need for them to live together."
"It's inevitable that conflicts and disputes will arise when people live under the same roof."
"I did this because I was afraid things would turn ugly between the two sides. What angers me the most is that you didn't invite me when you were discussing things."
"Am I not a member of the Li family? Why are you treating me like this?"
This statement left Li Chaoyang speechless. His mother had told him at home that he couldn't make this decision on his own.
He suggested he go back and discuss it properly with his wife. He then told his mother with a smile that there was no need to discuss it, as he knew Lou Xiao'e best.
He always says he'll be satisfied, but his mother doesn't really believe him, saying he's just bluffing.
Going back and asking my wife is the most reliable way to go, and it turns out my mother was right; she was very wise to do that.
This essentially gave him a way out. If they hadn't communicated with Lou Xiao'e, they wouldn't have known what he was really thinking.
How could he worry so much? In his mind, his parents were the kind of people who were very easy to get along with.
That's not what he said; he only said that because he hasn't spent any time with them.
"Honey, isn't what you're saying a bit too serious? It doesn't seem like it is."
"We're all family, how could we possibly fight like this? Besides, I'm not a chauvinist, I'm just discussing this with you, aren't I?"
Upon hearing this, Lou Xiao'e was so angry that her nose almost bent. He still had the nerve to say that this was a discussion, when it was clearly just a formality to let him know.
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