Film and Television Variety Show: The Jade Girl's Love Affair

Before that, I had some suitors—handsome young men and wealthy people—but they couldn't make me happy while we were eating and chatting.

After Tang Yu finished speaking, Zhang Yunlong asked a question.

"You two chose to get married at such a young age, aren't you afraid of the future?"

"I know many people are afraid of change and afraid of relationship breakdowns, but for me, the feelings in the present are more important. If the relationship breaks down in the future, I will get a divorce."

Marriage is for happiness, and so is divorce. I can't speculate on whether I might be unhappy thirty years from now, so I'll reject all possibilities in the present.

During a later interview, the production team asked another question.

What are your thoughts on the current phenomenon of fear of marriage?

"That's normal. It just proves that young people today are more thoughtful and responsible."

When people find it difficult to find a job and a salary is not enough to easily support their children, young people choose a responsible approach and do not have children casually.

Or will I end up like my parents? They argue and cheat on each other every day, and then sell their children?

Therefore, this is not a bad phenomenon; it reflects the progressive thinking of contemporary young people.

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After this episode aired, many people were amused by Tang Yu's views on love.

"If a handsome guy opens his mouth and says that women should stay at home to carry on the family line and that eating a ten-dollar meal is a waste, I would also find the handsome guy disgusting."

A mismatch in thinking is worse than being ugly.

“Stubborn and unreasonable people are really scary. There is no way to communicate with such people. They will only throw tantrums and act recklessly.”

“Sister Yu grew up in this kind of family, so she understands this kind of thing all too well.”

This episode had already finished airing, and when Tang Yu and Zhang Ruoyun were watching the show at home, he asked them with a smile.

Am I currently exhibiting signs of being stubborn and conservative in my thinking?

Can you understand the street kids with their ghostly lights?

After Tang Yu finished speaking, Zhang Ruoyun spoke up without hesitation.

"Of course I don't understand. A group of people speeding and disturbing the peace in the middle of the night, not caring about their own safety at all. What's so understandable about that?"

Hearing this, Tang Yu leaned against her husband and smiled as she spoke.

"We don't need to keep up with the times, because some people are just plain crazy."

Your strengths and ideas will still shine brightly decades from now.

After discussing this topic, the two continued looking at the rest of their trip.

After all, Zhang Ruoyun wasn't involved in the Shangri-La segment, and he was quite curious about what his wife had done.

Afterwards, the group went to a blueberry farm to play, and in the afternoon they went to Wudihu for a barbecue and overnight stay.

The program mainly consists of eating and drinking; there are no difficult or challenging segments.

However, during this chat and meal, Tang Yu discussed a topic that generated a lot of buzz.

Opinions vary regarding male confidants.

Lu Yi and Zhang Yunlong completely disbelieved that male confidants couldn't have romantic feelings, while Chen Qiaoen felt they were just very good friends, like family, with whom one could confide everything.

Tang Yu spoke without hesitation.

"My idea about this issue is to be fair. If I like to confide in a guy about my married life, like to chat from time to time, and like to share my hobbies, then I'll be fair."

Then I have to accept that my husband will also talk to a woman about his sex life, his unhappy things, and his hobbies.

But upon closer reflection, how could I possibly accept this? If my husband enjoys chatting with another woman, seeks comfort from her when he's unhappy, and shares his hobbies with her, then what am I? Just a decoration?

Tang Yu laughed immediately after speaking, and Chen Qiaoen spoke up right away.

"So you don't believe in male confidants? You think only romantic love can exist between men and women?"

"Nothing is absolute in this world; there is absolutely pure friendship between men and women."

But the person I love doesn't seek my company when they're in pain or sorrow, nor does they share my joy when they're happy. They always seek out their own confidants. So why should we get married?

After Tang Yu finished speaking, Bao Lei spoke up.

"I understand your point. It doesn't matter who your male confidant is. The key is that we need to pay more attention to our partner's feelings."

Tang Yu nodded, and then Zhang Ruoyun paused the program, leaned against the sofa, and asked a question.

Did you have a male confidant before we met?

Tang Yu shook her head, then leaned forward and kissed the other person.

"Have you forgotten how busy I was back then? If you hadn't been with me every day during the matches, we wouldn't have had any time to get to know each other."

Some people have added me in their contacts and sent me messages, and occasionally they even call me, but I just find them annoying.

These people call and text me while I'm playing or practicing, completely unaware of my schedule. I feel like they're just causing me trouble.

After Tang Yu finished her rant, Zhang Ruoyun laughed so hard his whole body was shaking.

"It's the kind of message that asks if you've eaten, slept, are you tired today, or if you're free to grab a meal in a few days."

Tang Yu nestled in her husband's arms and nodded with a smile.

"After finishing my practice each day, I would check my phone and find more than a dozen missed calls and text messages, none of which contained any important information."

I felt like the sky was falling. Even learning a few jokes and riddles when pursuing someone would have been helpful.

The scariest thing is that some people even texted her asking how to play tennis and how to buy a racket.

These questions seem to require some thought, but Tang Yu feels that these people don't understand tennis at all and are just trying to strike up a conversation.

So she's very difficult to deal with.

"Yu Yu, I don't know about other people, but if someone can become your confidant and understand your gentleness and strength in private, then he will definitely fall in love with you."

Therefore, I will never let you have a male confidant in this lifetime!

Tang Yu smiled and pinched her husband's cheek.

"Actually, I didn't tell the truth on the show. If a guy likes to approach me by sharing his hobbies, like sports, music, or travel, then..."

"Then he must have feelings for me; I've always been this narcissistic."

After enjoying the outdoor barbecue, the group embarked on a day trip, hiking and exploring the surrounding mountains to appreciate the scenery.

One part of the activity involves confiding your troubles to the Ashoka tree and taking them all away with you.

When Miao Miao confided her troubles, she mentioned the frustration of being isolated when she was young.

While studying and dancing, I was suddenly told that a group of people who used to laugh and joke with me every day suddenly said that they actually hated me and were cursing me behind my back.

That feeling haunted her for a time, and she had no idea what she had done wrong.

Seeing Miao Miao crying, Chen Qiaoen quickly comforted her.

“I didn’t have any friends when I was a child. I liked to play in the cemetery after school. A lot of people didn’t like me, but I didn’t care. If they didn’t like me, I didn’t like them either…”

Tang Yu thought of her experiences when she was young.

"When I was about six years old, the neighbor's kid made fun of me for being a girl and for my parents not liking me. I beat him up and made him cry loudly."

The little boy later brought his older brother over, and the two brothers wanted to teach me a lesson. I beat them both until they cried loudly.

Later, some people in the alley tried to teach me a lesson, so I beat them all up.

From then on, the children around me were afraid to speak loudly when they saw me. My survival philosophy at that time was to solve problems with violence.

I thank the country and society for saving me, allowing me to learn a different way of educating people after I went to school—to persuade them with reason.

After Tang Yu finished speaking, Lu Yi laughed out loud.

How can we persuade people with reason?

"Tell them to the teacher, and if they still don't repent, then you can't reason with them, so you can secretly beat them up."

After Tang Yu finished speaking, everyone present burst into laughter.

After that, Tang Yu comforted Miao Miao.

"If people don't constantly reflect on themselves, but instead find trouble for those around them, the world will become a much better place."

Don't worry about whether you've done something wrong. If you've really made a huge mistake, prison and the courts are waiting for us.

As long as these places don't cause us trouble, just be yourself.

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After this episode aired, the show immediately previewed the next episode's trip to Hangzhou, where Zhang Ruoyun will be the tour guide.

"Brother Yun is finally back. I want to see him and Sister Yu traveling together."

"I understand what Brother Yun said last time. No one can make Sister Yu angry. She's the queen we've fought since we were kids."

"I believe what Sister Yu said. Her playing style has a violent aesthetic, and most people really can't beat her."

"Looking at it this way, Sister Yu's personality has matured a lot over the years. When she was young, she would fight directly; now she uses words to kill and wound the heart."

"If I had said this on a TV show ten years ago, it would have drawn a huge wave of criticism. But now everyone understands one thing: damn it, there are countless oddballs in this world!"

Therefore, we should reflect less on ourselves and criticize others more!

"Stop internal strife and enjoy a life of depravity!"

"Open your mind to things; if you can blame others, try not to blame yourself; refuse to waste your energy; and if something happens, just let it out!"

"Sister Yu's mental state is ten years ahead of ours. No wonder she is successful. Just this mental quality alone has won her over a large number of people in the world!"

"In this highly competitive environment, the old saying goes, 'A moment of forbearance brings calm, and taking a step back opens up a vast expanse.'"

If you endure breast hyperplasia now, you might develop ovarian cysts later!

"Whether I go for it or not, I might as well go crazy!"