Film and Television Variety Show: The Jade Girl's Love Affair

"To be precise, I have encountered many traps and dangers, and temptations are only the smallest difficulties in my life."

"How to say?"

Tang Yu laughed when Lu Yu asked that question.

"Let me start by talking about extreme sports. Actually, many things are thrilling and exciting, but I chose to do extreme sports because it is legal."

There are many dangers and temptations in this world that can be exciting, but I cannot choose to take this path because it would ruin my life.

As for extreme sports, I haven't actually tried those extremely challenging ones because my family wouldn't allow it.

I couldn't guarantee I'd survive, and I didn't want to upset them, so I only did thrilling and safe sports.

As Tang Yu finished speaking, Zhang Ruoyun added his explanation from the side.

"My wife has always believed that the best way to care for your family is to take good care of yourself, eat well, sleep well, drink well, live a healthy and happy life, and make your family worry less. This is the best way to respect and care for your family."

Tang Yu held Zhang Ruoyun's hand, nodded, and smiled.

"In my understanding, there is a type of person who will harm himself, whether by making himself sick, by letting himself fall into depravity, or by deliberately going astray."

In fact, it seems that getting attention, gaining care from others, and making loved ones feel sorry for you is the way to win love, but I don't agree with this approach.

If I get hurt, my parents will worry and secretly shed tears, and my partner will be extremely anxious. In fact, they are feeling very bad at that time.

They truly care about and love me, but I don't want them to experience too much of this in their lives. I hope I'm always healthy and happy, so they don't have to worry about me.

"If I were to encounter any minor accident while lying in a hospital bed, I would certainly accept their care and love without hesitation."

But I don't need to actively seek revenge and hurt myself, then make those around me suffer and cry for me; that's an unhealthy mental state.

No matter when or where, she has an unwavering belief that she must take good care of herself, no matter where she is.

"So may I ask what you think of your family?"

"Of course, I can answer this question, and I will answer it seriously, because sometimes if I don't give a complete answer, netizens may interpret it from a completely unexpected angle."

That's why I rarely talked about them before, because they're not in the entertainment industry.

Sometimes I might get attacked by my fans or haters for no reason; there's actually an information gap between us.

At this point in the conversation, Lu Yu asked a question with a smile.

Is this why you rarely do in-depth interviews?

"That's one reason. Another reason is that I sometimes speak bluntly. If I can't help but expose some of the dark secrets of the entertainment industry, I might have to leave the industry."

After he said that, Zhang Ruoyun burst out laughing.

"So I'm staying by her side today, in case she tries to spill some bombshells, I'll immediately cover her mouth."

Tang Yu smiled and glanced at her husband before continuing the conversation.

"My mother was an excellent head nurse, and although she is now retired, she was an outstanding woman in her career."

If you were to ask her what her shortcomings are, she might have a few of the typical flaws of Chinese parents. But in my eyes, she is a shining, outstanding career woman and a qualified, excellent mother.

As for my biological father, he has a few more flaws, which is why my parents divorced. However, he respects and loves his children very much; he just doesn't have much talent in his career.

I am very grateful that over the years, wherever I went to shoot commercials or movies, he was always by my side, helping me overcome many difficulties and dangers that I couldn't handle at my age.

At this point, Tang Yu mentioned her stepfather.

"He is a reasonable, gentle and tolerant person. There are four children in our family, and he respects and loves each of them very much."

This family should be chaotic, but actually, because of my stepfather, our family gets along very harmoniously, because he is a wise man…”

After talking about her family, Tang Yu brought up the topic of danger and traps they had just discussed.

"Sometimes the public wonders why we celebrities have bodyguards when we attend events, as if we are high and mighty people. Actually, these are lessons learned from experience."

I've encountered people sneaking into my hotel room, like those obsessive fans, and I've also encountered offline trolls who might suddenly try to attack me.

You can't imagine that everyone in this world is a normal person. There really are shameless people who sneak into your hotel room, want to take pictures of you, or even prepare some threatening gifts in the hotel room to scare you.

Of course, these are all dangers that the audience can imagine.

Some unseen dangers include suppressing and insulting you in public opinion, or photoshopping images to spread rumors about you. In short, business competition can sometimes be quite unscrupulous.

Anyway, there are a lot of rumors about me. I can't say which ones were spread by my competitors, but this particular rumor does exist.

At this point, Tang Yu turned to Zhang Ruoyun and spoke.

"It seems like I've revealed too much. I hope saying this won't lead to my retirement from the entertainment industry."

Zhang Ruoyun burst out laughing.

"Don't worry, this topic is fine. It's just that it might cause discussion after it airs, and some people might say you're playing the victim."

Tang Yu burst out laughing after hearing this.

"Let's talk about traps. Actually, this is a very broad topic. We often sign all kinds of contracts, and if the people around me aren't professional, they might really fall into legal traps."

Besides, if you take a photo with someone from a high-profile or wealthy circle, they might turn around and say that you're going to do some big business together, and then use you to create hype and trick a lot of people into investing. So you have to be careful even when taking photos together.

Then, at social gatherings and dinners, they might sometimes induce you to say things you shouldn't, then film and record them, and then edit the recordings online and expose them.

Just like ordinary people, even in a regular job there is backstabbing, colleagues who will betray you, and bosses who will exploit you.

Being a celebrity is the same; it's a competitive arena where not everyone is kind, and there will always be people who want to take advantage of or cheat you.

The conversation had gone quite deep, and Zhang Ruoyun spoke softly.

“Our circle loves hype. Sometimes, if you’re not careful, you might get dragged into the news and hyped up. If you refute it, it will only add to their buzz.”

Sometimes we also worry about which approach is most appropriate, one that won't offend the audience while still effectively expressing our stance.

When the conversation reached this point, Lu Yu mentioned the songs "Nonsense" and "Jumping Clown".

What were your feelings when you wrote these two songs?

Tang Yu burst out laughing.

"Because some ways of swearing are not very civilized, this is a way of swearing that I came up with that is both widely spread and civilized."

“I envy my wife’s talent, and sometimes I want to curse like that too.”

After saying this, the couple looked at each other and smiled.

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"May I ask what kind of event you experienced that led you to create this song?"

Tang Yu turned to Zhang Ruoyun and spoke.

"If I were to criticize some of the chaotic practices on film sets today, I'd probably trend on social media after the show airs."

Zhang Ruoyun spoke with a smile.

"Don't worry, we'll get scolded together, we'll share the joys and the sorrows."

Hearing what the person next to him said, Tang Yu smiled and spoke up.

“In recent years, people in this industry have become very impetuous. They can set shooting dates before the script is even finished, and then revise it on set as they go.”

How could such a script possibly be good? The logic is flawed, and the entire story was likely written by several or even a dozen screenwriters in collaboration.

Each person was responsible for a subplot, and no one knew what the other had written, so it was filmed just like that.

This chaotic situation is already widespread; my words probably offend a lot of people.

"Besides that, there is another group of people who can't even understand the script, and then they direct the screenwriter to revise the script on set every day. They can't even understand the idioms in the script, and then they say that this is not well written and that is not well written. The above is just my rant on my WeChat Moments."

Some investors also couldn't understand the scripts, so they learned a formula: for example, urban dramas should have a cheating mistress, and fantasy dramas should have a tragic love story spanning multiple lifetimes.

It seems like this is a universal formula; as long as you film it this way, you'll become famous and make money.

"But actually, the audience's aesthetic tastes change. If the same type of work is made a few years ago, people may feel a sense of novelty. But if it is made a few years later, it will be outdated. But these people don't understand."

I can't say I'm an expert, but I at least know that audiences want to see something that truly stands out. Whether you've put your heart into it or not, the audience can definitely sense it.

After Tang Yu finished speaking, Zhang Ruoyun added with a smile.

“We often look at the scripts each other has received. Some of these scripts are really illogical and chaotic, and then they still have to boast about how big the investment and production are. It’s really an eyesore.”

The couple exchanged a glance and silently sympathized with the time they spent reading those terrible scripts.

"Is this why you started your own company and personally participate in the production of TV series and movies?"

Tang Yu nodded, and then explained the problem in detail.

"I like to take the initiative. The works I participate in may not be perfect, but at least I can ensure that the story is complete."

At this point, Lu Yu asked with a smile.

"You've played so many roles, which one do you think is most like you?"

Looking back on her roles over the past ten years, Tang Yu suddenly realized...

They all have vibrant personalities, which are not particularly similar to my own.

"It seems like there's no role that makes me feel like I'm playing myself."

"So, what kind of personality do you think you have?"

Tang Yu pondered for a moment; this question seemed quite difficult to answer.

"I wouldn't call myself an introvert, but I don't want to label myself as being very lively and extroverted."

Because some people are very outgoing and sociable in front of acquaintances, but quiet and reserved in front of strangers.

If I had to describe my personality, I would say I'm rather rational and calm.

After saying this, Lu Yu looked at Zhang Ruoyun.

What kind of personality does your wife have in your eyes?

Zhang Ruoyun smiled sweetly as he held Tang Yu's hand and spoke.

"My wife is a rational and clear-headed person when it comes to her career, but in life, when she's with her family, she's a gentle, romantic, and humorous person."

She would say sweet words to her family, tell jokes when they were sad, and gently cheer them up.

When conflicts arise in the family, she acts as a mediator, understanding everyone's needs and grievances, and then providing the best solutions.