Greenery Ace No. 9

Chapter 679 Failed No.1

Zheng Bin quickly waved his hand, and said in denial, "Zhou Zheng, you've wronged me if you said that. I didn't make a sound for a long time just now, just thinking about whether what you just said was right or not, and I finally figured it out. The conclusion is that I think what you just said is really true.

The quality of academic performance in school really does not represent whether a person is really smart. The criterion for testing whether a person is really smart should be whether he can quickly adapt to the cruelty and rhythm of this society after entering society, even in this cruel society. Achieving some good grades in the society is the only criterion for testing whether a person is really smart. Other academic grades are really very false and cannot represent a person's true comprehensive quality at all.

After you said those words just now, I suddenly remembered a phenomenon I noticed before. This phenomenon has troubled me for many years. I have always wanted to understand why this phenomenon occurs, until you said those words just now After that, I finally figured it out. "

Zhou Zheng stared at Zheng Bin with a puzzled expression on his face, and he was a little bit guilty in his heart. My brother Bin is such a smart person, how can he still have problems that bother him for so many years?Isn't he kidding me?In fact, I just wanted to use these words as an excuse to divert this topic.

Zhou Zheng pretended to be relaxed and said: "Brother Bin, can't you? You are such a smart person, you still have problems that bother you. It really didn't occur to me, what is this problem? Is it related to relationship problems? If so, you can analyze it for me, no matter what I say, I am an emotional master, a little bit of advice can make you happy, stay away from being single, and even change a girlfriend every week."

Zheng Bin burst out laughing: "Go away, boy, and change your girlfriend every week, do you think I'm a boar? You don't need this kind of girlfriend like you said.

And when did you become an emotional expert again?I feel that even if I have relationship problems, what I say to you will only get worse and worse. I can't solve any problems at all. Besides, you have been a bachelor for more than ten years, but you have become a Emotional expert, are you trying to laugh me to death? "

Zhou Zhengyi raised his head and pretended to be arrogant: "Don't look at people through the crack of the door, okay? As the saying goes, have you never eaten pork, haven't you seen pigs running? Have you never been in a relationship? It doesn't affect my ability to be a Love expert.

In the face of emotional problems, I suggest breaking up all of them. "

One sentence almost didn't make Zheng Bin happy: "You really have you, you kid. You can play all kinds of topics. I really admire your ability. I think it's a pity for you to play football in the future. It's better to enter the entertainment industry." If you want to be a comedian in the circle, I think you will have greater development than playing football. It is not extravagant to hope that it will become popular all over the world, but it should be no problem to become popular all over the country. By then, you will definitely earn more than playing football. Fame is also great, after all, in the football circle, no matter how famous a football star is, the probability of getting out of the circle is very low, unless it is the kind of star who plays in the five major European leagues, then there will be a lot of attention."

Zhou Zheng had already shown his cleverness, so he didn't want to waste any more time on this topic, so he resolutely brought the topic back to the main topic: "Brother Bin, don't talk about him anymore, just talk about him." What exactly is the phenomenon that has troubled you for more than ten years? Is it a relationship problem or a football problem? You are not allowed to talk nonsense, you must say everything, and completely tell the secret in your heart, otherwise I will never I will let you go."

Zheng Bin smiled wryly, I shouldn't have brought up that topic, but now that I've been blackmailed, I can only obediently talk about that phenomenon.

He coughed a few times, and then began to say seriously: "Actually, it's not a phenomenon. It's just that I have summed up a big problem in my previous school and some news, that is, I pay attention to learning all the year round. After the incident, I found that there were many champions in the college entrance examination that year, and there were also many students with top academic performance in the same school. These students generally took the No.1 exam. The recognition has also caused a lot of repercussions in the society.

Usually, various newspapers and media will try their best to interview this kind of students, interviewing them about their experience in taking the No.1 exam, what methods they usually use to study, and even learn from them, so that they can share their learning experience. , and then promote it so that more students can benefit from this learning method.

The parents of this kind of students will have more face. No matter where they go, the eternal topic in their mouths is that my child has passed the No. 1 exam and No. 1 in the whole school.

It seems that this child's No. 1 exam has become the highest honor, and it has become the only place for these parents to be proud of. They completely ignore the child's comprehensive quality education, and they don't care whether the child is happy or not. It is not a dream to show off one's academic performance, or even to have that kind of dream, dreaming that one day after graduation, one's own children can enter the upper class, and earning a million a month is not a dream.

These parents are very happy when they have this dream, because they are not up to date, their lives have failed, whether it is a mess in their career or family, so they put all their hopes and energy on their children. , I hope that the children can fulfill their own life value instead of them, and I will explain it in my whole life.

At this time, these No.1 children are actually very beautiful. They are extremely proud in front of children, and they are also very proud in front of adults. In front of teachers, he is even a favorite baby. It can be said that he is loved by thousands of people. All in one, it seems that he has reached the pinnacle of his life all at once.

But as it has been said all the year round, things are always reversed. Once a thing reaches its peak, it will inevitably fall back, collapse, and decay. This is an eternal truth in the universe, especially in the human world.

This kind of child with particularly good academic performance has reached the pinnacle of life at a young age, and his academic performance has always been far ahead of other children. Even when he is studying, he can maintain this No.1 with a little effort. This kind of mental state of being able to take the first place in the test without any pressure will gradually let the child relax his strict requirements, because he thinks it is too easy to get No. 1, and he has no rivals in learning. , My friends are much stupider than me, and they don't understand the topics I talk about.

After having this kind of thinking, these children began to let themselves go, thinking that anyway, how to learn the first place is mine, but they lost their goals and no longer have the motivation to study hard.

If there is a long-term follow-up investigation, you will find that those who often take No.1 exams or even those top students in the college entrance examination, after many years, you will find that they have developed mediocrely in any field. It is a very paradoxical phenomenon that there are particularly successful people, and no one has become a leader in a field.

Because these children have shown a particularly developed brain power since they were young, and their thinking is also very quick. It is said that this kind of children should achieve particularly great achievements when they grow up, but the fact is just the opposite. Not only can they not achieve that kind of particularly high Achievement, but some people are not even as good as ordinary people.

Because as you said just now, these people usually spend their energy and time on their studies and do not contact the outside world at all. If there is a slight setback in the society, once he can't think about it, he may go to a dead end. If he is serious, he will commit suicide, and if he is depressed and irritable, he will have mental problems. Some people even block themselves from contact with the outside world. It is even more sad to live in your own world.

This is just part of the phenomenon I mentioned that troubled me, and another part is that although the children whose academic performance has been listed as No. Students, on the contrary, can achieve good achievements in life and career in the future, and some people can even become leaders in a field, which makes me feel even more incredible.

It is said that he could not win the No.1 in his studies when he was a child, and he should not be able to compete for the No.1 when he grows up, but the facts give us an accurate answer, often those students who take the No.2 and No.3 exams When I grow up, my achievements are much better than No.1.

Originally, I didn't understand the reason for this phenomenon, but after listening to your words just now, I had a complete epiphany.

Just like what you said just now, people with particularly good academic performance often have very poor social skills, and their psychological quality is even worse. If these people stay in school all the time, they may be able to get along like ducks in water, but everyone can't If you stay in school for the rest of your life, you must graduate. After you graduate and enter the society, no one cares about how well you rank in the exam, and no one cares about how good your grades are in school. Everyone only cares about your work. Whether the ability is strong or not, and whether the human-machine communication ability is strong or not.

A person who can make achievements in business is a person who does a good job. No one in the company or unit will give you a test paper, and no one will ask you to find a standard answer within the specified time, because there is no standard answer at all. Individuals rely on their own judgment to find the most accurate answer, and those students with good academic performance, their thinking has been solidified, and they will not be flexible at all. When it comes time, they are much more stubborn and clumsy.

Of course, after hearing so much from me, you may ask, didn’t you just say that those students who took No.2 and No.3 exams will develop well in the future?Doesn't this example contradict what you just said?This problem has actually troubled me for a long time, but I figured it out just now.

Comparing the children who took the No.1 test with the children who took the No.2 and No.3 tests, their mentality is completely different. The children who took the No.1 test have a winning mentality, while the children who took the No.2 and No.3 tests , The mentality is the mentality of a loser, no matter how much their score is different from that No. 1, even if it is only one tenth of a point away, they are also losers and the party that has been hit.

And No.1 always wins in this kind of game. The joy of victory will gradually make him anesthetize himself, and feel that he is invincible. If occasionally he loses to his opponent a few times, it is actually good for him Yes, but this kind of child is good at studying and taking exams. In school, he can hardly get No. 2 in the exam, and all of them are No. 1.

Then his opponents will be hit in turn. This kind of failure should be necessary for those students who are in the growth stage, because only after experiencing these blows and failures, their psychological growth will be more mature. Mental endurance will also become stronger and stronger.

In addition, at this time, the parents and teachers of the students will encourage the students who take the No.2 and No.3 exams, telling them that they have done well enough, but they just need to continue to work harder, maybe next time The exam will exceed No.1.

After receiving these encouragements, these No.2 and No.3 students are also a great comfort in their hearts, so that they understand a truth at a young age, some things don't just work hard to receive the best As a result, this also allowed them to slowly accept the cruelty of reality. When they grow up, they will be more adaptable to the fast-paced development of society. Their own learning ability is very strong, coupled with good psychological quality and flexibility, then As long as they work hard, they will definitely be able to achieve very good heights in a certain field, there is no doubt about it. "

Zhou Zheng pinched his chin and pretended to be thinking: "Brother Bin, don't say it, I really thought of this problem when you said that. In the past, there was a student in our village who had a particularly good academic performance. He got the first place in the class in all exams. This kid is so proud that ordinary people don't pay attention to him at all. Our little friends from the same village ignored him and pushed him out.

That kid was very anxious, but he didn't realize why he was hated at all. He always thought that we were jealous of his academic performance, so he didn't want to talk to him at all.

In fact, we all just think he is too stinky. No one envies or hates his academic performance at all. Moreover, he speaks very badly and always loves to be sarcastic. Over time, he has no friends.

Later, in order to avoid being squeezed out by us, this kid transferred to another school when he was in the second year of junior high school, and went to a key junior high school in the next county to study, as if he was preparing for those prestigious universities. I didn't try to understand, anyway, this person is very hated. "

(End of this chapter)