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Chapter 190 What is a Tactician? [Please customize, the second update! 】

"Actually, the most critical part of this trade-off tactic is... to give the woman a sense of security."

Jiang Hong nodded approvingly.

Before asking this question with Fu Jiahai, he had already understood this point deeply.

After pregnancy, it is the time when the woman feels the most insecure.

Everything Jiang Hong does now: take care of work, cook better, sweeter and more nutritious meals, stay by Xu Wan's side whenever he has time, etc.

On the one hand, it is because I really want to do it for the mother of the child, and I want the child to develop better and healthier; on the other hand, it is to give the woman an absolute sense of security.

He listened and drove without interrupting.

Every time Fu Jiahai starts a class, it must be a long and full class.

"During pregnancy, a woman will become more suspicious and think more due to the secretion of hormones, and may even change her situation drastically."

"Usually, a person who looks particularly natural and magnanimous may become more petty because of pregnancy, and the thoughts in his mind will often involuntarily think in a vicious direction."

"So in this case, even if you do nothing, it may cause suspicion... Not to mention, if you want to hide money, the difficulty will increase by several orders of magnitude."

Fu Jiahai thought for a while, then paused, "However, this is the characteristic that I have seen and summarized from the pregnant women I have seen before. The character of your Xu Wan... is too unique."

"I heard from our family's old Cheng that your family's Xu Wan is the sober type. She can think about all kinds of problems very openly, and she is very free and easy, so I don't know... Will she also become the kind of woman I said before? like this."

"But I think, for us money hiders, all risks must be magnified, and we must prepare for the worst and worst in our hearts... Otherwise, we may die at an unknown time."

"I think you understand what I mean."

Jiang Hong also agrees with this point very much.

Those who hide money must think of all the troubles and hidden dangers as much as possible, and then kill them in advance.

Otherwise, it is possible to lose everything.

This is something that needs special attention...

"Since you are planning for the worst, then... you have to think about it now. Your future life will inevitably involve a further 'fight of wits and courage' with a more skeptical wife."

"You have to be more careful than before. As we all know, after the woman is pregnant, the man needs to do much more than before. After all... it's the most important thing to take care of the woman."

"There are already too many things to do, and you have to pay more attention when hiding money than before. The difficulty factor can be imagined. Human energy is limited, and manpower is sometimes poor. You can't guarantee all your money. Things will be all right.”

"At this time, it is necessary to use the 'trade-off tactics' I mentioned."

Fu Jiahai made some preparations, and finally reached the most critical position.

Jiang Hong involuntarily pricked up his ears.

"The so-called trade-off is actually the literal meaning. You have to give up the things you don't need to do yourself, and leave those things that you really need to do."

Jiang Hong was confused when he heard it...

This, isn't this tm nonsense?
"I know, you must think that what I'm talking about is nonsense. Since you have a lot of things to embarrass you now, it must be because you have to do everything in your hands, and you have to give up everything. If it doesn’t drop, there will be a problem of lack of energy.”

"right?"

Jiang Hong let out a "hmm".

"If it were so easy to make a choice, I wouldn't be so embarrassed. What I have to do now, everything... can't be given up, and I have to do it myself. How can I choose?"

Fu Jiahai said "hehe", "Hey! That's right, you have reached the key point, and this is also the core content of my trade-off tactic."

"You might as well think about it in a different way. The task in hand... really has to be done by yourself? Tell me, what are you going to do now."

Jiang Hong thought about it, and explained everything to Fu Jiahai except Yuan Xi, business development, system income and other things that should not be treated by outsiders.

Fu Jiahai said deeply, "Hey, there are many things, but you still haven't moved in your inherent thinking. In fact... things are not as complicated as you think."

"Let me ask you, just about cooking, you want to cook more hearty meals for your wife... But, do you really need to cook this hearty meal by yourself?"

Jiang Hong paused... as if he had accidentally touched the core of this tactic, his eyes lit up slightly, but he always felt that there was still a thin layer of window paper between him and the real answer.

A little bit.

"You mean to say..."

Fu Jiahai's tone became a little more serious: "That's right, what I mean is that you cook better meals for the development of the fetus, for the health of your wife, and at the same time, to create an absolute sense of security for your wife. "

"But... Is it true that no one else can intervene in this matter? You can definitely find someone to cook, and you can supervise from the side. During the process of supervision, you can squeeze out more energy. "

"Except for things like hiding money that you have to do yourself and hide from everyone, the same is true for other things, for example...you are helping your wife with most of the work now .”

"You're a bit stupid. Who told you... After taking over these tasks, you have to do it all by yourself? You can definitely find another person or even many people you can trust, and at the same time Someone who happens to know how to work in this area will help you share the work pressure!"

"This is the core of the trade-off strategy! Disperse all the things that don't need to be done by yourself, and only concentrate on those irreplaceable things, such as hugging and kissing your wife, such as private matters between husband and wife, and hiding money. "

"And his affairs can be completely dispersed!"

Jiang Hong slapped his head.

Quite a feeling of waking up the dreamer with just one word!
Trade-offs!

That's right!
Where there is a trade-off, there is a trade-off.

There are some things that he can do without himself!
But...he always felt that there was something wrong here.

"But, Lao Fu, I always feel that this is a bit deceiving Wanwan, isn't it good?"

Lao Fu resolutely denied, "You're overthinking this, do you remember the other name of this tactic? 'Women come first tactic'!"

"It's just... think about the problem from the woman's standpoint, think about it in another way, you are a pregnant woman, what do you need most at this time?"

"It's a sense of security! It's caring! If you spread out the things that don't need to take up more energy and let others do them, you can give her absolute care! Absolute sense of security!"

"Of course, when the woman is pregnant, she hopes to eat nutritious meals and meals prepared by her husband, and especially hopes to see her husband help her with work and share the pressure."

"But... she didn't say that you can't find someone to help, and they also know that you sometimes have no skills at all. What they care about is always just 'you finally did this and gave her a sense of security' rather than 'you How the hell did you do it?'"

"After pregnancy, their minds will become more and more simple. Believe me, they will not care about how you did it at all. They will only see that you have done more than usual and satisfied them! This is enough Now! The sense of security is in place!"

Jiang Hong was silent for a while, and had roughly accepted this statement in his head.

Lao Fu really still has something!

A person who is not planning to have a child in the short term can still have such a profound understanding of this aspect, and found such a set of methods suitable for him!
Wonderful!

The more he thought about it, the more he felt that this method was wonderful.

Fu Jiahai on the other side of the phone didn't hear an answer, and thought that this dead-headed guy was still struggling with such things as "cheating".

He said angrily, "If you really think this is deceiving her, then you might as well simplify it and cook according to my previous method. If you don't do it all by yourself, find a few chefs with better skills to do it." , but you are on the sidelines to supervise."

"Even if your wife asks, 'Why does the taste of your cooking change?', you can still answer, 'Baby, for the health of you and the fetus, I specially found some chefs and personally supervised them. You prepare the meal!'”

"The same is true for work. You can find a few more people to participate in the work together. At the same time, you can also participate in it yourself, so that you can feel a little bit involved. Does this mean that the 'sense of deceit' is gone?"

"However, I still feel that this, no matter how you say it, is a bit of taking off your pants and farting. It's completely unnecessary."

Fu Jiahai sighed again, "Lao Jiang, you just like to get entangled in unnecessary things, and I... don't know if I should say it or not, but we are brothers, I think we should remind you You."

Jiang Hong paused, then nodded, "Say it. It's okay, we have nothing to do, you can say whatever you want."

"I know, it may be because of your personality, so you like to do things in silence and don't like to make public, but this is really not good." Fu Jiahai said seriously.

"For example, to give you the simplest example, you cook a meal for your wife, you spend several days of preparation time, and finally make a big meal. If according to your personality, when your wife asks When you get up, you might say 'I didn't prepare ahead of time.'”

"But do you think it's really good to say that? You have done so many things in silence, and the result is that you don't let the other party know, so what are you planning?"

Just as Jiang Hong wanted to refute, Fu Jiahai interrupted, "I know what you want to say... You don't want the other party to know, you don't want the other party to worry about it, and other nonsense."

"I also said that this is just a suggestion. I think you should really change your mind, because if you do things this way, you have obviously put in a lot of effort, and you may only get three or four points in the report in the end."

"Of course, you may think that it is enough for you to get only three or four points in return, but I tell you clearly, girls are all creatures who pursue high goals!"

"You put a lot of effort into expressing only three or four points, and sometimes they will think that you really only showed three or four points. Do you think girls will be satisfied?"

"Let me tell you a very normal thing, something that is absolutely applicable in your reality! You spend 1 yuan to buy a bag for your wife, and you say that this bag is worth 2000 yuan, and your wife may be very happy. "

"But... only when she knows that it is a 1 yuan bag, will she have a higher sense of surprise."

"Since that's the case, it's better to just omit the intermediate steps. You just tell your wife that the bag is 1 yuan, or even tell her that the bag is [-] yuan, so that she will be very happy when it comes up. Isn't that good?"

Jiang Hong always felt that what this guy said seemed to be unreasonable.

But the more I listen to it, the more it makes sense... What's going on here?

After all, sometimes, a man's brain circuit is completely different from a woman's brain circuit.

Sometimes, men feel that they are protecting women, but women feel that this is cheating.

And sometimes, men feel that they are deceiving women, but women feel that they are sincere.

"So... you mean, let me pay attention to the result, not the process? Only in this way can we make better use of trade-off tactics?"

"That's right." Fu Jiahai firmly affirmed it again.

"It doesn't matter how you make a good meal, you just need to let your wife eat this big meal. It doesn't matter if you are stealing, cheating, or doing nothing, you just You need to tell him that this is all due to your efforts, and she will be very satisfied."

"Others, you don't have to worry about it at all. Once you have a sense of security, happiness, and love!"

Jiang Hong felt that these words were a little different from his previous life principles, even... quite different.

He was hit by tens of thousands of lightning strikes for a while.

It's as if... I have become more familiar with the truth of this world.

There is a feeling that Fu Jiahai pushed the "private money door" away. It turns out that... some things can be treated so simply?
The more Jiang Hong thought about it, the more reasonable he became.

Finding someone to do it together may not necessarily be lazy sometimes. Isn't this a sign of importance?
Thinking about it this way... he can completely disperse a large part of his energy!
His life doesn't have to be so crowded and difficult at all.

In fact, it's just that his thinking is too conservative.

Jiang Hong was overwhelmed!

With this trade-off tactic...he doesn't even need to learn from his father anymore.

He feels that his maneuverability is very high.

This kind of thing is actually the master leading the door, and the practice is up to the individual.

Fu Jiahai can only pass on a set of methods to him, but of course he has to dig out how to use it himself!

Just like last time, Dad taught him to switch roles reasonably!
Jiang Hong couldn't help but sighed, "Old Fu, you are a fucking genius, you are worthy of being a master tactician!"

Old Fu on the other side of the phone smiled shyly, "Hahaha, it's not necessary, it's too polite. Actually, you don't have to worship me, it's all trivial."

"I'm still in the process of figuring it out, and you've already been able to actually test it out now! So, if you have any real ideas and methods after the real experience, you can communicate with me again."

"My methods, after all, are not too mature, nor are they particularly well-formed."

Jiang Hong nodded again and again, feeling a little excited.

He gained a lot from this phone call!
　Second more.

　　four thousand.

　　Eight thousand today, make up two thousand.

　　The draft is still 6w.

　　All the methods mentioned in this book can be used directly in reality.

　　No nonsense, all close to reality.

　　Including today's trade-off tactic, as well as Lao Jiang's ability to switch roles before, can be used in reality.

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　　Then it can only be... the practice is up to the individual.

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