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Chapter 337 Congratulations on becoming a father
Zhang Zhe couldn't remember which matchmaker had told him that the probability of young people getting married because of pregnancy is getting higher and higher these days.

If it weren't for having children, many couples wouldn't even consider pursuing marriage.

Although Zhang Zhe wasn't sure how other matchmakers came to this conclusion, having a child before marriage certainly changed the situation entirely.

Just to be on the safe side, he checked the situation with the girl again:

"Sister, does your boyfriend still not know about this?"

"Yes, I didn't tell him. I wanted to surprise him."

"But I didn't expect him to be this kind of person; he failed my test..."

"Whether you're surprised or not, put that aside for now. I have a second question: Can you guarantee that this child is his?"

"Or to put it another way, if you told him now that you're pregnant, would he automatically assume the child is his?"

"Of course! What kind of person do you take me for, Brother Zhang? I'm not the kind of person who messes around. He's my only boyfriend."

"If I hadn't been pregnant, I wouldn't have wanted to get married at such a young age."

"Yes, indeed. When you came in just now, I thought you had just turned 18."

Zhang Zhe nodded. The girl was pregnant, so there were some things he couldn't say.

Now he could understand why the girl looked so aggrieved when she first came in, but calmed down a bit as they talked, and then suddenly looked like she wanted to cry again. To put it bluntly, she was a bit crazy.

Because she was newly pregnant, her hormones were changing drastically, making her much more sensitive than usual. She was prone to crying and getting angry, and it was impossible to see things from the perspective of an ordinary person.

"Sister, now that you have your child as a trump card, I think you should talk to your boyfriend again."

"Knowing your situation, his attitude might change."

“No.” The girl shook her head and said, “I don’t want people to think that I’m threatening him with the child.”

"I'm not telling you to threaten him. Just say that the child appeared to you in a dream and wants you to have a grand wedding."

“At least this gives us an explanation,” Zhang Zhe said helplessly. “Otherwise, your boyfriend will think you’re just being petty and he’ll definitely try to persuade you instead of spending more money.”

"No, no."

"Brother Zhang, you're wrong."

"If I persuade him in the name of the child, wouldn't that mean he's putting up with me for the sake of the child?"

“He doesn’t actually love me; he loves his children. I don’t mean much to him at all.”

"Isn't that right? That makes sense, doesn't it?"

"..." Zhang Zhe was truly stumped by what this woman said.

how to say?

Should I tell her:
Indeed, if it's just you, a wedding isn't worth 3000 yuan per table; it's only worth the groom's investment if the children are included.

Let me analyze it for her:

In traditional families, a mother's status is determined by her son; what's shameful about that?

You should be more assertive now that you have children. They are your flesh and blood, and isn't it only natural for you to enjoy the blessings that your children bring?
However, Zhang Zhe thought about it and realized that this was not the right way to communicate with pregnant women; he needed to find a different approach.

He suppressed a laugh and said, "Why are you even jealous of your own child?"

"If he doesn't like children, and doesn't show any emotional reaction when he hears you're pregnant, and says he only loves you, would you be happy?"

“Then I won’t be happy either.” The girl shook her head: “He has to like the child too.”

"So why are you thinking so much? Just tell him you're pregnant and make sure you understand what's on your mind."

"How about it? Is it okay now?"

Zhang Zhe looked at the girl tentatively. In his opinion, since things had come to this point, there was no need to say more about what to do.

The woman only has her child left as a trump card, so she has to use it to see if the other party can handle it. Ideally, the man would take the initiative to back down and go through with the lavish wedding.

If you really can't reach an agreement, then have an abortion and go your separate ways.

Of course, there is another possibility: the man or his parents are the kind of "old hands" who know the woman is pregnant but deliberately delay taking care of it.

As the girl's belly grows bigger day by day, force her to submit.

At that point, let alone a banquet costing 3000 yuan per table, even if it costs 300 yuan per table, you'll have no choice but to accept it.

Ultimately, it depends on how the man and woman reach an agreement. Zhang Zhe believes that as a matchmaker, there's not much he can do in this, not even to charge a fee.

But the girl who came for advice didn't think that way.

After frowning and thinking for a long time, she suddenly grabbed Zhang Zhe's hand and said:

"Brother Zhang, can you help me persuade him? My boyfriend really enjoys watching your videos."

"I came to you today hoping you could help me persuade him and make him realize that he was wrong."

"Sister, don't get agitated." Zhang Zhe struggled to pull her hand away: "Let's talk this out. You're pregnant, you need to stay calm."

"Since you've come to me, nothing is a problem for me, so please don't get agitated."

Zhang Zhe didn't want to get into any serious trouble, although with Attorney Yu by his side, he was theoretically safe.

However, the best approach when dealing with a pregnant woman experiencing emotional fluctuations is to keep her calm and composed.

"Okay, I'm not upset." The girl sniffed and nodded. "Brother Zhang, can you help me? I don't know how to face him right now."

“He has made me feel a little heartbroken. He wasn’t like this when we were dating. He used to spoil me a lot.”

“OK, I understand.” Zhang Zhe said with an understanding look, “Give me your boyfriend’s phone number, and I’ll talk to him.”

"Ok?"

"Okay, thank you, Brother Zhang."

"It's nothing, it's a small matter." Zhang Zhe handed over his phone with a smile.

Judging from what this girl just said, her current complex emotional state is indeed caused by hormonal changes in early pregnancy.

I guess it's because she got pregnant that she felt uncomfortable with everything about her boyfriend.

But the effect of hormones is only one aspect; her own thinking habits are the key.

She was pampered by her boyfriend when they were dating, but when it came time to get married, she wanted to be a little willful, only to find that her boyfriend suddenly wouldn't accept it. Of course, she couldn't understand it.

But was the man at fault?

Zhang Zhe felt that even if there was a possibility, it was very small. This girl was pregnant but didn't say so, and she had quite a temper when she spoke. The man was busy preparing for the wedding and really didn't have time to figure out what she was thinking.

After the girl finished entering her phone number, Zhang Zhe looked at Yu Rui:
"I'm going to call the guy. You stay here and chat with the girl."

"Huh?" Yu Rui hesitated, her expression showing struggle.

Zhang Zhe didn't have time to wait for him to hesitate. He stood up, patted him on the shoulder, and walked into his own live broadcast room.

The call was answered quickly, and Zhang Zhe first introduced himself:
"This is Brother Zhang from the Perfect Matchmaking Agency. Your girlfriend asked me to call you."

"Brother Zhang? Is that the Brother Zhang who does live-streaming blind dates on Xiaohongshu?"

"That's right, it's me." Zhang Zhe went straight to the point: "You have a girlfriend, and you're planning to get married, right?"

"Yes Yes."

"Congratulations, bro, you're going to be a dad!"

(End of this chapter)