The beautiful teaching assistant gave birth to my third child, and the whole school was shocked

Chapter 195 Putting the Wedding on the Agenda

Erbao may not really realize where he went wrong.

After all, she is still too young.

But at least, Xiao Fei needs to let Erbao know that this is wrong.

As for why, I can teach you slowly in the future.

Once you establish a basic sense of right and wrong, everything will be easy.

Children's moods change as quickly as the weather in June.

Erbao was feeling aggrieved and very depressed before, but after a while, she became happy again.

Although there was no dessert to eat, Erbao did not change his attitude towards Xiao Fei at all and he was still as clingy as ever.

the next day.

While continuing to teach the children to recognize words, Xiao Fei found that Erbao was much more serious this time and no longer made trouble on purpose like before.

That's good.

After the teaching, Xiao Fei gave each of the three children a fruit platter as a reward...

In order to take care of the children's baby teeth, Xiao Fei specially selected fruits with particularly soft textures such as bananas, and cut them into very fine pieces.

Time gradually came to May.

As children grow older, they recognize more and more words.

Sometimes, Dabao, who is the fastest learner, can even read some children's books with pinyin marked on his own.

And Xiao Fei also has to start considering another very important thing.

He is about to graduate from college.

In other words, the wedding with Tang Yuxin must be put on the agenda.

Relatives and friends from both sides must be invited.

Some people still need to be invited for various reasons.

Such as Wang Chuanfu and Musk.

There is even Yu Gaoshan, who has been communicating with Xiao Fei from time to time.

After deciding who to invite, Xiao Fei also decided to choose the Magic City as the venue for the wedding.

As for the relatives on both sides, we can just send our own plane to pick them all up at once.

After deciding these things, what remains is the specific process of the wedding.

Xiao Fei first ruled out the Western-style weddings that were everywhere and had no originality at all.

Not interesting.

Excluding Western-style weddings, the remaining ones are naturally Chinese.

But since he had decided to have a Chinese-style wedding, Xiao Fei simply gritted his teeth and decided to go through all the procedures in the most traditional way.

Three matchmakers, six engagements, and six rituals of Zhou system were all carried out in the strictest manner.

But in this case, the cost is naturally staggeringly high.

Xiao Fei didn't care.

The expense is one thing, the tedious process is another.

There are six ceremonies in the Zhou Dynasty, namely, accepting the bride's proposal, asking for the bride's name, accepting the bride's good wishes, accepting the bride's betrothal gifts, asking for the date, and welcoming the bride.

This is the classic structure of the six rituals. With the development of the times, the six rituals have been simplified from time to time.

However, the additions are mostly based on the "six rituals" and add secondary rituals and miscellaneous customs, such as urging the make-up, sending the make-up, and setting up the room.

Simplified ones often combine several pre-wedding rituals. For example, in the "Family Rites" written by Zhu Xi in the Song Dynasty, the six rituals were combined into three rituals: "Nacai", "Nabi" and "Qinying" according to the customs of the time.

If broken down in detail, the Zhou wedding system includes pre-wedding ceremonies, wedding ceremonies and post-wedding ceremonies.

Pre-wedding ceremonies include the rituals of accepting marriage proposals, asking for names, accepting good luck, accepting betrothal gifts and asking for a date.

The formal wedding ceremony includes rituals such as welcoming the bride, bride's arrival, drinking the wedding wine, and setting up the remaining food.

Post-marriage rituals include the wife meeting her uncle and aunt, the uncle and aunt offering wine to the wife, and the wife giving gifts to her uncle and aunt.

In addition to this, there is also the theory of three books.

Engagement letter: Engagement letter, written by a man and a woman. Used when accepting marriage proposal. Gift letter: Gift letter, a list of gifts, which lists the types and quantities of gifts in detail. Used when accepting marriage proposal.

Wedding letter: This is the letter for welcoming the bride. It is used when welcoming the bride on the wedding day.

The ceremony is cumbersome and the process is complicated, representing the importance that the ancient Yanxia ancestors attached to marriage, couples and family.

After a careful review, Xiao Fei discovered that this kind of thing was no longer something he could handle without asking for help.

He...needs a professional team!
Not the kind where black people carry coffins.

So, Xiao Fei directly found the most famous celebration planning company in Shanghai.

When they heard that Xiao Fei was going to hold his wedding according to the most traditional Zhou system of six ceremonies, the people in the planning company were excited.

Even a fool knows that a wedding like this is definitely a big deal!
Xiao Fei kept the whole process a secret from Tang Yuxin.

at the same time……

"Mr. Yu, do you want to be the witness?"

"Hahahaha... Not only do I want to be your witness, Xiao Fei, I also want to be your matchmaker! You can't just find anyone to issue the betrothal letter, right?"

"I think, old man, I still have this face."

On the phone, Yu Gaoshan was very happy.

As a master of traditional folk music, Yu Gaoshan is extremely obsessed with various traditions of Yanxia.

Otherwise, he wouldn't have mastered almost all the national musical instruments.

However, music is one thing, and participating in the most traditional and authentic Zhou-style wedding is another.

Now that he has this opportunity, Yu Gaoshan is very interested in being a witness.

Given Yu Gaoshan's identity and status, it is absolutely appropriate for him to serve as the witness for Xiao Fei and Tang Yuxin.

Xiao Fei smiled and nodded and agreed to this.

He then called his family.

Upon learning that Xiao Fei had started preparing for the wedding, Xiao Jun, Wang Fang, Tang's mother and Tang Dingyuan were all very happy.

"...Um... Xiao Fei, what about the three matchmakers and six betrothals? How can we understand these things now?"

On the phone, Xiao Jun was a little embarrassed.

"It's okay, Dad. I have hired the most professional planning team. You just need to listen to them. They will go to Sichuan and Chongqing in a few days to go through the pre-wedding ceremony first."

"The wedding ceremony will be held in Shanghai. I happen to have two houses here. The large flat in Golden Domain Mansion can be cleaned up and used as the bride's home."

Knowing that Xiao Fei had planned everything, the elders on both sides finally felt relieved.

Afterwards, they began intensive preparations without telling Tang Yuxin.

Notify relatives and friends of both parties, and contact the planning team who rushed over from Shanghai.

Yu Gaoshan also traveled thousands of miles to get there.

this day.

Tang Dingyuan already knew that Xiao Fei would send an envoy to his house today to perform the betrothal ceremony, so he and his mother waited patiently at home early in the morning.

Soon, there was a knock on the door.

"Open the door, open the door!"

Tang Dingyuan hurried over and opened the door.

Standing outside the door was Yu Gaoshan, who looked energetic with white hair and a youthful face.

In his hand he was holding the wild goose specially prepared by the planning company.

Geese are used as gifts because they are migratory birds. They fly south in autumn and return north in spring. They come and go at their appointed times and never miss the season. Therefore, geese are used to symbolize the unwavering loyalty of men and women.

Moreover, the male and female geese mate together until death, symbolizing loyalty and living together until old age.

"You...you are..."

"Mr. Tang, my name is Yu Gaoshan, and I am the envoy of the Xiao family who came to discuss marriage."

Holding the gift, Yu Gaoshan said with a smile on his face.

Tang Dingyuan was stunned.

(End of this chapter)