Siheyuan's Silly Pillar has been replaced by someone else

The deaf old lady in the backyard is now a little restless.

Yi Zhonghai's mind was on the Jia family, so he had even less time to pay attention to her.

She thought about it for a few days and decided to have a good talk with Yi Zhonghai.

After work that day, Yi Zhonghai returned home and said nothing.

Even if no one told him deliberately, the name of the Pretty Widow inevitably reached his ears.

He didn't really care about that.

The key thing is that he is worried that Qin Huairu will remarry and escape from his control.

When the deaf old lady heard Liu Haizhong coming home, she came out of the house.

Seeing Yi Zhonghai's look, he kept shaking his head in his heart.

She could never have imagined that Yi Zhonghai would be trapped by the Jia family.

"Zhonghai, let me ask you, what do you want?"

When Yi Zhonghai saw the deaf old lady, he quickly stood up and said, "Old lady, why are you here?"

The deaf old lady sat down and said, "Is it okay if I don't come? Look at you, what has become of you now?

Don’t forget, we are looking for elderly people.”

Yi Zhonghai sat down frustratedly: "I didn't forget. It is precisely because I didn't forget that I am worried.

There are so many young people in the hospital, but none of them can be as filial as Huairu.

Who else can I count on? "

The deaf old lady asked, "Do you really think that Qin Huairu's one-to-four widow package can provide for your retirement?"

One to four, three children and a mother-in-law, it can be said to be an extremely luxurious widow package.

No one knows the power of this package better than Yi Zhonghai.

Yi Zhonghai did not give a direct answer: "Who else can I look for besides Huairu?"

The deaf old lady said: "You have to know that no matter how beautiful Qin Huairu is, it can't change the fact that she is alone with four people.

If you continue to get entangled with her, you will have even less chance of finding someone to take care of your elderly parents."

Without having to continue listening, Yi Zhonghai knew what the deaf old lady was going to say next.

The two people argued about this issue for seven or eight years, but there was still no result.

Yi Zhonghai knew very well why the deaf old lady looked down on Qin Huairu.

But he couldn't abandon Qin Huairu, and there was no way to abandon her. Qin Huairu was someone he had specifically found to ensure his retirement.

Yi Zhonghai didn’t know how to answer, so he simply didn’t answer.

The deaf old lady did not ask Yi Zhonghai to answer this question.

“You have to understand one thing. Qin Huairu is under a heavy burden right now, especially with the unreasonable Jia Zhang.

As long as Jia Zhang is around, no one will be willing to help the Jia family.

If you continue to be tied to the Jia family, others will not dare to contact you.

No one has contacted you, so it’s strange that you can find talent for elderly care.”

Yi Zhonghai said helplessly: "I am Dongxu's master, and he has given me another trick of entrusting his son to me before his death.

What can I do? "

The deaf old lady said: "You should change your mindset. As long as Jia Dongxu is alive, it won't be a big problem for you to treat the Jia family as a place to take care of the elderly.

Now that he is dead, you should also change your positioning of the Jia family.

You want to turn the Jia family into a spare tire and choose a new person to take care of the elderly."

Yi Zhonghai thought for a moment and then gave up: "Where can I find a suitable person to take care of the elderly?

Besides Dongxu and Huairu, are there any other filial people in the courtyard?
Yan Jiecheng has been trying to please me recently, but he didn’t even provide for his own father in his old age, so how can he provide for me?”

Speaking of this, the deaf old lady is also very troubled. It is really difficult to find a filial child.

She was optimistic about He Yuzhu, but the problem was that He Yuzhu ignored them.

If He Yuzhu had listened to her, she would have persuaded Yi Zhonghai to give up the Jia family with confidence.

It is impossible that he would keep pulling the Jia family along even though he knew they were unfilial.

The aunt hesitated for a moment and suggested: "Why don't we adopt one?"

"No."

The deaf old lady and Yi Zhonghai objected at the same time. Yi Zhonghai said, "How do you know that an adopted child will be reliable?"

The deaf old lady also said: "Cui Lan, how old are you two? Do you still have the energy to take care of a child?
Our yard is full of tigers and wolves.

You are old, and your children are still young. You won’t be able to protect your family business by then.”

When the aunt saw this, she knew that the two would not listen to her, so she could only shut up.

The deaf old lady said: “Zhong Hai, what I mean is that you shouldn’t be too active in helping the Jia family.

The more proactive you are, the more passive you will appear in the eyes of the Jia family.

Only by letting the Jia family come to you for help can you truly take the initiative.

Qin Huairu is working now, and her family has Jia Dongxu's pension, so they will not have trouble making ends meet.

You have to wait patiently until her family can no longer make ends meet before lending a helping hand.

No matter how much you give, it is not as good as helping someone in need."

No matter how much you say, it is not as important as this sentence in Yi Zhonghai's heart.

He thought back to his own situation and found that he had violated the principle of this sentence long ago.

Qin Huairu saw this and didn't listen to his advice.

"Ma'am, I understand."

Seeing that Yi Zhonghai really understood, the deaf old lady felt relieved.

"It's best if you understand. You have to remember that it's the Jia family that needs you, not you who need the Jia family.

Without the Jia family, you can still find someone else to support you in your old age.

There are so many people in the world, there will always be filial ones.

The Jia family would not be able to survive without you."

Yi Zhonghai nodded sincerely: "I remember it all."

The deaf old lady said: "You are not young anymore, and you should change your temper.

Shazhu, you need to change your strategy and stop going against him."

Yi Zhonghai immediately felt dissatisfied and said, "He is the one who is determined to go against me.

He won't do anything I ask him to do. He enjoys doing the things I don't ask him to do more than anything else."

When the deaf old lady heard this, she knew that Yi Zhonghai was dissatisfied with He Yuzhu.

She didn't dare to continue her words of persuasion to Yi Zhonghai.

"I'm not asking you to give in, I'm asking you to stay out of his way. Right now in the courtyard, the three of you are at odds, and your prestige is not enough.

As long as Shazhu makes trouble for you, you won't be able to accomplish what you want to do.

Think about the donation to the Jia family. Why do people in the courtyard always look at him? They want him to stand up and stop it. "

Yi Zhonghai sat aside and reflected.

A lady asked, "Old lady, since Sha Zhu is not on good terms with the Jia family, he should not want to see people donating to the Jia family.

Why doesn't he destroy it?"

The deaf old lady couldn't answer this question. No one knew what He Yuzhu was thinking.

As long as they don't provoke He Yuzhu, He Yuzhu doesn't care about donating to the Jia family.

After thinking it over, she could only answer according to her own guess.

"He still has some sense, knowing that the Jia family can't survive without donations.

This is something we can take advantage of.

Cuilan, you should be kinder to her family. Don't make things awkward.

When we really get into trouble, Shazhu will probably take care of it."

The aunt looked at Yi Zhonghai and agreed. If He Yuzhu really had good intentions and would help them with their retirement, that would be great.

Looking at the happy expression of the aunt, the deaf old lady felt very upset.

She saw it more clearly than the old lady that He Yuzhu really didn't want to have any contact with them.

Many times, she would secretly blame Yi Zhonghai when she recalled what happened back then. If Yi Zhonghai could have handled things more beautifully, they wouldn't have gotten into such a bad situation with He Yuzhu.

The deaf old lady secretly vowed that she would find a way to make He Yuzhu change his mind and treat her as his own grandmother.

Yi Zhonghai also reflected on it and realized that it would be much easier to have a helper like He Yuzhu under his command, so he did not stop the aunt. (End of this chapter)