I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

"Hey hey hey hello big brother."

The person who came up was a man.

Lin Feng: "Tell me, what's going on?"

Man: "Brother, I came to talk to you last week about my child getting beaten up at school. I came today to thank you for the advice you gave me last time.

It works.

It really works hahahaha."

You can tell the man is very happy.

Lin Feng also smiled slightly.

The man continued, "Let me tell my eldest brother and my brothers about what happened.

It was noon that day, I went to my child’s school, and then Uncle Hat, the principal of the school’s academic department, the head teacher of their class, and the other child’s parents all came.

Two parents from the other side came, one was the child’s mother and the other was the child’s grandmother.

After arriving, the child's grandmother acted very wildly and showed no attitude of admitting her mistake at all.

She just kept arguing with me and didn't show any apology at all.

Then I expressed my attitude.

I said you can choose not to accept my request, and I will solve it in my own way.

Then I mentioned it casually and said, I'm sorry, leaders, I have to go home and take medicine, otherwise I'm going to have a mental breakdown.

After saying that, I got up and left.

At this time, I heard the grandmother behind me said to the uncle in the hat, "You all heard it, what if my child goes to this school in the future?"

After hearing these words, I didn't answer him and just left.

Because if I continue like that, I won't be able to negotiate the results I want.

So I left decisively, but after I left I did one more thing.
I stood at the school gate.

I waited for him and his mother to come out, and then I followed them.

They also asked me, hey, why are you still following us? Is there anything else you want?
I just looked at them and laughed, I didn't say anything.

I followed them for about 300 meters, and then they couldn't stand it anymore.
His mother-in-law turned around, patted my shoulder and said, "Young man, let's go to the other side and I'll treat you to tea."

Because there is a row of teahouses opposite the school, she said, "Let me treat you to tea, and then we can sit down and have a good chat."

I asked you if you are sure you want to have a good talk. If you still have the same attitude as before, then we won’t talk anymore. I will solve it in my own way.

After I finished speaking, I shook my head a few times. He panicked and asked me if I had taken my medicine. I said, "Don't worry about it. Can we just have a good chat?"

He said yes.

Then we sat down and talked. After the conversation, the first thing I mentioned was compensation. All the examination and medical expenses incurred by my child in the hospital, no matter how much, must be returned to me.

The second one is that you must go to this school tomorrow to publicly apologize to my child.

Our parents didn't have to go into the classroom. We just stood outside the classroom window and watched the whole thing happen and end.

And later you have to ensure that this child can't bully my child again.

After saying that, I shook my head twice and they said okay.

And that evening I received a call from the teacher saying that the other parent agreed to make a public apology.

The next day at school, they did exactly what they were told.

So I am very grateful to my elder brother for giving me this idea. "

. . . . .

On the barrage

"I have a mental illness (laughing and crying)."

"It's only been 300 meters and I'm already worn out (covering my face)."

"Young man, have a chat, hahahaha."

“Old people are also afraid of mental illness (dog heads).”

Hahahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "I've told you, right? Most people can't stand it."

Man: "Hahahaha yes, I think your trick is really useful.
And during the conversation, I learned something. What was it?

It means that their whole family may be civil servants. When I heard this, I was excited.

Because my elder brother told me that life within the system is better.

I was excited at the time, and I thought to myself that as long as you are not the top leader of our province, you must have a boss.

I will pester your boss, and when he gets annoyed, he will definitely go to him to resolve the issue.
My goal is to annoy his immediate boss.

So I really want to thank my big brother for the advice. "

Lin Feng waved his hand: "No thanks, you should thank yourself for listening to me.

Unlike some older sisters-in-law, who come to ask when they don’t understand, don’t listen when I tell them, and say they can’t do it.

You are different, you listen and you can execute, which is very important. "

Man: "Yeah, actually, when I first went to school, her mother-in-law was like a madman, making a lot of noise. If it were my wife, she probably wouldn't be able to control herself.

Although I had a bad temper before, I listened to my eldest brother and ignored him.

The uncle in the hat behind said that the old lady retired from the system.

I got excited when I heard this.

Later in the conversation, I heard that the child's father went on a business trip to the county town today.
I knew his family was in the system, so I thought this matter might be easier to resolve than I thought.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

“I got excited when I heard that the other party was in the system, hahahahaha.”

"When I heard his hahaha laughter, I knew he had solved it perfectly."

"Just by listening to the tone of voice, I can tell that this dad is really happy (flowers)."

"This is a great segment, it's a joy to listen to (thumbs up)."

"So what does grinding mean?"

"It's just a civilized way of pestering him, like a hawk."

Insightful
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Man: "Then something happened that day, and I just wanted to take this opportunity to talk to the brothers in the live studio and the sister.
Every office, including schools, will have a QR code called the Double Review QR code.
The background of this QR code link is Jiwei.

If they are not satisfied with the scanned code, then after more of them, they will be interviewed on TV or even questioned by the news.

If this QR code is used 10 times in a month, someone can be held accountable.

First of all, their top leader must be held accountable.

When I arrived at school that day, I happened to see their director posting the QR code, and I asked, "Is that the double review QR code?"

The director glanced at me, and then he quickly took the QR code back in, hahahahahaha."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

“Double review QR code? (confused)”

“Why isn’t there one in my child’s school? (Strange)”

“No bad review (raised eyebrows) feel it for yourself.”

"Or maybe the director took it back again (laughing and crying)."

"We have it in our community. You can sweep it, but you are required to give a good review (grin)."

Absolutely amazing! . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Brother, thank you for your feedback. I believe it provides a good idea for more parents whose children are bullied. Thank you."

Man: "No, no, no, I should be the one thanking you, brother. That's it. I won't waste your time."

Lin Feng nodded, and the man got off the microphone.

"How about it, sister-in-law, what do you think after listening to this?"

The woman stammered, "I'm just afraid that I might not be that tough. It's just my personality. I'm actually a very soft person."

Lin Feng frowned: "Women are weak, but they are strong as mothers. Your son has been bullied, and you are still afraid of nothing."

. . . . .

On the barrage

"So, Big Brother's method should be implemented by smart people. For those who are dumb, timid and unwilling to take action, forget it. Every time Big Brother teaches people to implement it, the parents who are connected to him are vague and don't want to implement it. It makes me angry just listening to it."

"No, no, no, it's not that I won't enforce it. I have a tear incontinence physique. When my son was bullied by his classmates, I started crying as soon as I got to school and said a few words."

"My tear incontinence is so annoying. I just can't control my tears even though I don't want to cry (grin)."

"When I used to fight with others, I would cry while fighting (covering my face)."

"I'm the same way. I often can't control myself and sometimes I get annoyed with myself (feeling wronged)."

"I totally understand, me too."

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Damn it, you're not that tough and you made a bunch of people burst into tears. I give in.

Didn’t I tell you before that if you need to be tough, you should do it tough, and if you don’t need to be tough, there are also non-tough ways to do it.

If you are very strong, you will be hardened, and you will have reason to be ground.

If you are weak, you can just cry and complain, isn't that the same thing?

Can't you cry when you go to someone else's workplace?

Can't you cry when you go to your neighbors?

Can’t you cry when the hat comes?

If you are not that strong, you can just do it while crying. Why do you have to stand there with a stiff neck?

I was weak, so I cried. I usually take care of this child by myself. He has been in poor health since he was young, and you still bully him like this.

Why don't you just cry?

Your crying doesn't mean you can't be reasonable, it doesn't mean you can't try to persuade, and it doesn't mean you can't use a hat to adjust.

If you cry at his workplace or in his neighborhood, he will become even more panicked.
When you are strong, the other person may be able to endure for three days, but if you cry, it may take only half a day."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"But I'm a single mother, and the other party is not afraid at all (crying to death)."

"You have to be patient and persistent. The disadvantaged groups are more likely to arouse sympathy."

"That's right, what's wrong with being a single mother? It's even more awesome."

"Your son will always remember that there is a crybaby yet strong mother behind him (heart)."

So touching!
. . . . .

Lin Feng: "There are also people who say that the child should fight back. If the child can fight back, why would they look for you?
Why do many parents not understand this?

Can't you see that your child is as thin as a stick insect?
The other kid looks like a fat tiger, and your kid looks like a stick insect. You asked him to fight the fat kid, but he obviously can't beat him, so he comes to tell your dad that he was beaten.
Then you ask him to fight back, and then he gets beaten again the next day. What else can you do?

I am impressed that he did not know his own son's ability and yet asked him to fight back.

Children's development is naturally different.

Some just can't beat me,

To be honest, don't you know about your own skinny son?
If you raise your fist, it will fall down. You can't even lift your fist, and you still ask him to do it?

To be honest, Fat Tiger jumped up like a flying wild boar, and then he got beaten up again. Your child won’t come home and tell others if he gets beaten up again.”

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On the barrage

"Hahahahaha stick insect son."

"Isn't it a tree trunk spirit (dog head)?"

"I call my son Ma Gan (laughing and crying)."

"Why are other people's sons all fat tigers (covering face)."

"Fat Tiger is 100% funny and Flying Boar is 100000% funny."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "I tell you, teach your children to be thick-skinned, teach them not to refute, not to prove themselves,
Just like the scene in Let the Bullets Fly, Liu Zi was wrongly accused of eating an extra bowl of rice, and he said, "I want to prove that I only ate one bowl. If you cut open my stomach, that's it."

In fact, most of the time, there is no problem at all if you just continue.

For example, Liuzi is the son of the county magistrate. Let alone one bowl of rice, what's wrong with me eating three bowls of rice?
It’s the same in school. If you call me a sow, I am a sow. It doesn’t matter.

Then I am the sow, and it will be your turn to see if I can nuke you to death.

I sat my butt on your face, and then the teacher came and I told him I was a sow, so I was a complete sow, and I sat on your face.

When I was a kid, the shampoo at home was not good, and my head was always itchy, and when I scratched it, there was dandruff.
Then my classmate said I was stupid.

If I say I'm right, I'll be rotten.

Then I scratched him, and later he got infected by me and had more dandruff.

Later my mother took me to the hospital and told me that I had dermatitis.

Dermatitis will definitely itch, so I scratch it. If you say my scalp is rotten, then my scalp is rotten, and I will still scratch it.

Because if you scold me, I will definitely be the one who is sad, but if I retaliate, it doesn’t matter if we both get hurt. Instead, he shut up later.

And there is another point. For example, if a classmate asks you to help him with his homework, you can do it. If you really can't resist, I said, people are just learning from each other.

You are indeed stronger than me, and I just can't beat you, so I admit it, but I will do it recklessly.

There's no other way. I can only do this, but when you act like this, the teacher will scold you.

If you hit me, I will tell the teacher that you asked me to help you with your homework.

That's the reason.

And another point is that the biggest bullying problem nowadays is that many children don’t know how to run.

People said don’t leave after school, they will wait for you at the school gate.

As a result, you went out of that door obediently, but you were caught and beaten.

You know that people are blocking you there and beating you, why don't you go out another door?

You don't dare to run.

Many people said to me, "Brother, wouldn't it be embarrassing if you ran away?"

Okay, so you feel you can save face just because someone blocked you and beat you up at the school gate?

I can't beat you, so what if I run away? It's not shameful.

Just run home and tell the teacher and then tell your parents.

Really, some children are just fooled by their parents and don't even run away when they are hit.

Just stiffen your head and let others hit you, or stiffen your back and let others hit you,

Fat Tiger's fist was so hard that he hit the child so hard that his mouth opened wide and he started crying, but he still held his neck stiff and took the beating.

You just run.

If you really ran onto the street, the security guards at the school gate or the adults on the way to and from get off work would see you and come to rescue you." (End of this chapter)