I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Lin Feng took a puff of his cigarette and said, “But then again, this is what many parents call a pain point.

It’s like there are a couple around me who work hard to make money from dawn to dusk. Do you think it’s hard for them to start from humble beginnings?
It must be hard work.

The couple never had a good day. They spent the whole day in the workshop working around the machines.
But if you really can’t teach your child well, what’s the point of all your hard work?

It's all gone in one day.

Because you can see his son's character, it is impossible for him to take over his parents' job.

His son doesn't have the same way his parents deal with people and the perseverance to work hard as them.

So once the parents leave, the family will collapse.

You said that the child has problems now. Even if you accumulate more wealth and leave it to him, he will not be able to take it.

On the contrary, since he has no ability, it would be better if you didn't leave him any money.

If he can survive, then he can survive. If he can’t, then forget it. No one will harm him anyway.

But if your son is incompetent, you haven't educated him well, and he still has a lot of money on him, then you are harming him as a mother.

Because there were many more people staring at him at that time.

There are always people who ask him to play cards, or take him to do something bad, or I always use my brain to think about business.

So many times when children have problems, parents have to stop at work no matter how busy they are.

Otherwise it's meaningless.

It’s okay to be poor.

I said, those who have money live well, and those who have no money live well.

If my son is gone, everything will be gone in one day!"

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Brother is right. Those who have money will live, and those who don't will live. If something happens to the child, what's the point of making money?"

"If you commit a crime in the future, it will be too late for you to regret it (grin)."

"She won't listen."

"At 9 years old, it's definitely family-related."

"Yes, I had a former colleague whose child often crushed chicks and ducklings to death, but she actually thought it was okay because the child was still young."

"Sacred Body Awakening (Dog Head)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “To be honest, who doesn’t have hard work?

It's all hard work.

In reality, many couples work together, but that doesn’t prevent them from chatting with their children, accompanying them, and disciplining them after work.

Anyway, let me put it here.

If you don't take care of your children, sooner or later someone will do it for you."

okay,

Next person.

Ding~
"Hey bro."

It's a woman.

Lin Feng: "Hello sister-in-law, is there any problem?"

The woman hesitated for a moment before saying, "Brother, my husband is a Buddhist and has abstained from sex since last year."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Believe in Buddhism? Abstinence?"

"Suddenly there was a flash of lightning (laughing and crying)."

“Hahahaha that’s outrageous!”

"Look carefully, the corner of the big brother's mouth has turned up (laughing to death)."

"Big brother is secretly happy: I have heard some more gossip (dog head)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Sister-in-law, you can't say that. Believing in Buddhism is believing in Buddhism, I can understand that.

But I can't understand his abstinence.

After all, these days even monks who drive Mercedes-Benz have wives and children.

Monks don’t abstain from sex, but he does.

Sister-in-law, he won’t ban it only with you, will he? "

On the barrage

puff~
Hahahahaha.

"What did I just say? Big brother is definitely up to something bad (sunglasses)."

"These days, even monks who drive Mercedes-Benz have wives and children (laughing and crying)."

"The monk didn't ban it, but he did.. Hahahaha, he got rich laughing."

"Only banning you, translated: your husband just doesn't want to have sex with you. (dog head)"

The case was solved.
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Woman: "No, no, no, I'm sure he has no one outside, because he never goes out for social events or anything, and he always comes home on time after get off work."

Lin Feng touched his chin and asked, "How long has this been going on?"

Woman: "Since last summer."

Lin Feng: "Sister-in-law, you open his phone and check a software called Baidu Tieba, including the browser.

See if he has joined the abstinence.

I remember that this abstinence policy only started in the past two years. Look at the picture above, it's so scary.

It is said that if a person indulges in lust and does immoral things, he will suffer retribution and have a short life.

It's very scary. After watching it, you won't dare to do it again.
And you have to clock in, first day, second day, third day.

Once you add that abstinence bar, that’s basically it.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Abstinence (laughing and crying)."

"No kidding, I really joined. At the beginning, I just studied health preservation, and the people in it said that I had indulged in sex for too long, blah blah blah, karma, reincarnation, or other nonsense. It was so mysterious (covering face and laughing)."

"Fuck, it's true. (confused face)"

"Big brother has a wide range of interests, you can't deny him (dog head)."

He's a character!

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Woman: "I haven't noticed this yet, because I hardly look at his phone anymore."

Lin Feng: "You still have to take a look, why do I know so much?

Because I have been there to check in before.

I'm not saying abstinence, I'm just simply curious.

After I got in, I found that the brothers there were of very high quality.
You go and clock in normally, and you say today is the first day of my abstinence.
Whenever someone replies to the post, they say, "Come on, brother!" or "This is my third day, keep going, brother." In any case, they encourage each other.

. . . . .

On the barrage

“Hahahaha, bro has also been there to check in (laughed until he vomited).”

"No, how come he has done everything (covering face)"

"The quality is very high (dog head)."

"What the hell kind of anchor am I following (grin)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Some people may have been holding it in for a long time, for example, a week, or even half a month.
You can tell from the messages he sends that he really needs to open a business, but he will still say come on brother,

They would also say in the group that people must have few desires, saying that the kidneys store essence, essence produces marrow, and the brain is the sea of ​​marrow. If the brain is full of marrow, one will be knowledgeable and have a good memory, and will be pure and strong.

I feel like I'm going fucking crazy, and yet I'm still saying that people must have few desires.

Even more stubborn than me."

. . . . .

On the barrage

“You can see he really needs to open the business hahahahaha.”

"I'm a little confused (covering my face and laughing)."

"The word 'open' is very explosive even in the abstinence circle (sunglasses)."

"It should be said or not, big brother's language skills are still improving (dog head)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Woman: "I don't know what to do now. If I continue like this, I will feel so wronged."

Lin Feng: "That's not a big deal. When your husband hears the Buddha calling him, he will become a Buddha, but I will become a demon. He has abstained from desire, but I still have desires. I am not a saint.
We haven't reached the realm of Prajna, right? By that time you've cultivated your golden body to perfection, and you've never indulged in lust again in your life, what should I do then?

I have entered the devil's way, I have become an evil cultivator."

Well. . .

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"He has become a Buddha, and I have become a demon (laughing and crying)."

“Evil cultivator, hahahahahaha.”

"Brother is so funny. He's so funny in a serious way. Haha."

"The Buddha is calling (the dog head)."

Absolutely,

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Woman: "I have thought about separating, but if we really separate, I have two sons now, and it would be very hard to take care of them by myself, so I don't know what to do now, and I have been very upset."

Lin Feng: “Damn it, you’re playing abstinence with me after giving birth to my son.

Sister-in-law, if you really can't do it, just talk to him. He may not listen to you if you talk about other things. Just follow his lead and talk to him about obscene things.

You said that normal intimacy between a married couple is not considered immoral.
Lust is when you think of bad things in your head, things that shouldn't exist.
We are a normal couple. Our life is not lewd. We call it harmony of yin and yang.

On the contrary, it will be more beneficial to your practice.

Didn’t Buddha also say: Not banning women is a positive energy.

Just tell him that.”

Well. . .

. . . . . .

On the barrage

“Not banning women is positive energy, hahahahaha.”

"Buddha: Don't accuse me if it's not what I said (smile)."

"Let's say, is it possible that this 'ban' is not that 'near' (laughing and crying)."

"Hahahaha, I'm really dying of laughter."

Big brother is so funny.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "You are like Fahai who needs Xiaoqing to help him practice, right? Anyway, that's what I mean. Talk to him first."

Woman: "We've talked about this many times. He finally told me that if he has this problem now, he won't be able to get up for a week."

Can’t get up? ?

Lin Feng squinted his eyes: "Then he doesn't really believe in Buddhism, he may be suffering from Yin deficiency.

Sister, take him to the andrology department. "

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Yin deficiency loss hahahaha."

"So it turns out that when things get bad, you just become pure and abstinent. That really made me laugh."

"Andrology looks like (a dog's head)."

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Maybe I wanted too much before, I have two sons, so my health is not good now."

Woman: "I don't know if it's because he's been a vegetarian for a long time."

Still a fucking vegetarian?
That's for sure.

Lin Feng said: "As a vegetarian for a long time, he does not take in protein, because more than 90% of that substance is glucose and protein.
He only eats vegetables, how can he provide it?

So after one time he was exhausted,

It's okay, stew some pork ribs for him.

Because we humans are omnivorous animals, we have to eat both vegetables and meat. How can we bear to eat only vegetarian food? ”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Big brother turns into a nutritionist (sunglasses)."

"I am dying of laughter. Big brother really wants to participate in everything (laughing and crying)."

"I can't stand being a vegetarian all year round. The nutrition is not enough."

"Pork ribs are not very useful, ask the national football team for some sea cucumbers to supplement it (dog head)."

夺笋
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Woman: "Is there any good solution to this problem?"

Lin Feng: "First, you should stew the spareribs to nourish his body, and then grind and get in bed more often.

By the way, may I ask how old he is this year? "

Woman: "My zodiac year. I am 36 this year."

Lin Feng smacked his lips and said, "That's hard to say. If he was still in his 20s, what did you say? Elder, look back at me. I don't believe you have empty eyes.

When facing the Queen of the Kingdom of Women, Tang Seng was so moved that he even talked about the next life.

I don't believe that his Buddha nature is higher than that of Tang Monk. His eyes are empty. If you dwell on him for too long, he will break the precepts one day.

But he is 36 years old, and he has been a vegetarian for a long time. As you said, he will not be able to get up for a week.
Then he might not react at all.

Sister-in-law, take advantage of now, just now you can get some benefit by getting into bed a little more.

In a few years, his mother will really only be able to play with birds, go fishing, burn incense and pray to Buddha, and there will be nothing else to do.

So, I say the same thing, you should stew some meat for him and try to get him to eat it first."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Elder, please look back at me. I don't believe your eyes are empty (laughing and crying)."

"Brother Yudi (dog head)."

Hahahahaha.

"Even Tang Monk is moved. I don't believe your husband's Buddha nature is higher than Tang Monk's. Hahaha."

"Big brother can really answer any question. It makes me so happy."

. . . . . .

Woman: "There's nothing I can do. He doesn't even eat eggs, let alone meat."

Lin Feng spread his hands and said, "That's all I can do, sister-in-law. If you can't do it, then you should stop hindering his practice.
Just like what people say, how can you have the best of both worlds, without disappointing the Buddha and without disappointing your lover.

He is almost there now, so please don't delay his practice.

Just discuss it with him, you can fix it, I won't interfere, but I can't help it,

I’m going to break my vow.”

Uh. .

Lin Feng: "You are a fucking conservative. You have achieved perfection in your cultivation. I am a fucking lustful person at home every day.

When I see that handsome boy on the street, I always stare at his legs.

I am different from you. I am an ordinary person and I still have emotions and desires.

Just discuss it with him and give him a deadline.

If he can slowly adjust and eat meat, our lives can return to what they were before, and we can continue living together.
If there is really no other way, then please let me go."

. . . . .

On the barrage

"I can't help but break my vow, hahahaha."

"When I see that handsome boy on the street, I stare at his legs (laughing and crying)."

"Sister-in-law: A full man does not know the hunger of a hungry man (grin)."

"That's good now. My sister-in-law wants some male models (dog head)."

puff~
Hahahahaha

. . . . . .

Woman: "There is one more thing. In the second half of last year, he told me that he was going to quit his job and focus on this."

Lin Feng: "What? Going there specifically to practice?"

Woman: “Yes!”

Lin Feng slammed the table and said, "What a jerk! If you want to practice and become a Buddha, you shouldn't have married me back then.

Now that you have given birth to a son, you want to abstain from sex and practice Buddhism. What should I do?
Buddhism talks about cause and effect. If you don’t even understand the cause of this old lady, how can you practice Buddhism?”

Woman: “Later, his family was making a fuss, so the matter didn’t work out in the end, but I feel like he hasn’t given up yet.

I asked him to give me all his salary, but he refused, so I have to pay for most of the family expenses.”

Lin Feng frowned: “That’s not right, sister-in-law, I believe in Buddhism and abstain from sex, but I can’t afford money.

For practitioners, the four elements are empty, so he is not empty either.

You should check his phone, I'm afraid he is only abstinent from you."

The woman suddenly fell silent. (End of this chapter)