I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

After a moment of silence, the girl slowly said: "So you think we don't love each other, right?"

Lin Feng nodded: "That's right.

In fact, many times it is because we are immersed in it and have no comparison.

If you meet the next boy and compare your previous behavior with his, you will find that it was not love.

Many people cannot see clearly when they are immersed in emotions.

It's like many times, before you meet other boys, you think he is this kind of person,
Or you can understand all his actions,
But when you meet someone better, and you look back at him, it’s actually very simple: you just don’t love him.

It is very obvious whether you love or not.

The result will come out after a comparison.

Some people are very career-oriented and principled. They may be very strong towards everyone around them, but when they meet the person they love, they will bow their heads and listen.

So whether you love someone or not has nothing to do with your personality.

If someone doesn't give in at all when you are together and only cares about his or her own feelings, then he or she doesn't love you.

Because as long as we don't have pure love in it, and there is no such deep emotional foundation there, each of us only cares about our own feelings, and cares more about our own feelings.

Human beings are selfish by nature.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"It's really obvious whether you love me or not (grin)."

"I don't love you enough that it's almost written on your face (laughing and crying)."

"After all the talk, the authorities are still confused (covering face)."

"No comparison, no harm (sunglasses)."

"Sister: So as long as I never compare myself to him, he will always love me (heart shape)."

You fuck,
Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Girl: "Actually, he told me many times before that he was insecure, but I also told him that I would be loyal to him. I even set up a location with him, and my circle of friends was open to him."

Hey hey hey!
Lin Feng waved his hand and interrupted, "Don't talk about that. I have never doubted your love from the beginning to the end.

Because you always want to put yourself on the pedestal of pure love,
I have no doubt at all about a pure love bootlicker like you.

What I am questioning is his love for you, do you understand?

Two people are arguing, one person is in a superior position, not giving in at all, and only cares about his own feelings.

I've said it before, if people want to be together, just lie to yourself."

Girl: "So, if it's love, you will give in unconditionally?"

Lin Feng: "Here you go again, I'm answering your question, and you're fucking debating with me?

Love is certainly not unconditional tolerance.

Relatively speaking, I will definitely try to argue for my own reasons.

But I wouldn't say that I'm looking down on you.

I won’t say I refuse to communicate with you.

Do you understand?
Just like when you want to talk nicely, but people don't want to talk to you at all.

In the final analysis, I just look down on you, I just think you have low cognition, and I am too lazy to communicate with you. "

Girl: "He's not refusing to communicate, he's just not in the right mood..."

Raymond Lam: "Then he just doesn't have the patience to give you that kind of emotional value. He just thinks you don't deserve it.

You see, every time you ask me, I tell you but you don’t believe me and you don’t want to hear me, so why do you ask me?”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"This is the first time I've seen someone so angry that his elder brother is red-hot (laughing and crying)."

"Always trying to make it up to her boyfriend (grin)."

"Brother: Sister, please listen to my analysis.

Sister: I don’t want to hear your nonsense. ”

"Hahahahaha, my sister is just stubborn."

"Big Brother: Pure love licking dog he~tui"

puff~
Hahahahaha.

Girl: “I don’t dislike it, but this has only started in the last two or three months, and I don’t know what the problem is.
The reason we can get to where we are now is because he is so tolerant and patient with me. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be able to get along with him.”

Stop stop stop!

Lin Feng slammed the table and said, "You are the one who is talking. I answered and you refuted in various ways.

play?

I said, people should not confuse cause and effect.

What does it mean?

Don't always think about what he was like in the past. What is in front of you now is the answer.

What is before you now is a lack of patience with you and a refusal to communicate with you.

People are like this. They can pretend for a while, but they can't pretend for long.

It's only been a year and a half.

No more pretending.

Can you understand?
For many people, it’s really not love, it’s just a strong liking.

But love is like the tide, after it recedes, the beach is left with only reefs.

You can see the whole thing at a glance.

It's the same truth, this person just doesn't pretend anymore.

The intense love has faded, and his tolerance for you is gone, that's all."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"For many people, it's really not love, it's just a strong liking (thumbs up)."

"People can pretend for a while, but not for long. Big brother is very clear-headed."

"But even if he can pretend for the rest of his life, that would be fine..."

"Don't be silly. The wind only stays for a moment. It won't stay where it is."

well said!
. . . . .

The girl said in a dejected voice: "Then... I think I understand what you mean."

Lin Feng's face looked better, and he softened his tone and said, "It's actually a very simple matter, you will know once you compare them.

It's not that I have to meet a better boy.
Just compare his previous attitude towards you with his current attitude towards you, and you can figure out whether there is love or not.

younger sister,

Let's not always go to extremes.

Just like the topic just now.

Is love tolerance without limits?
As soon as I said that, you jumped to the other extreme.
When did I say there is no bottom line?

Let me ask you, is there no bottom line for normal communication between two people without emotions?

When you seek communication, if the other party gives you a good response, does that mean there is no bottom line?

They are basically two extremes, okay?
You always jump from one extreme to another. Can you please make some compromise?
You can't even reach the intermediate level, and you are the one saying good and bad things.

To be honest, if he really thinks highly of you and thinks your opinions are useful, of course he can communicate with you.

But the reality is, many people would not be like this to their friends, but only to you.

This feeling is out of balance.

I said, many feelings have long disappeared, they are just dead but not yet stiff.

One day you meet another person, and when you look back, you realize that the relationship has long been dead."

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Many feelings have long disappeared, they are just dead but not yet frozen... My eldest brother touched my sore spot (crying to death)."

"Yes, some people are still together, but their relationship is dead in name only."

"It's good to be able to communicate, but if you can't communicate, it's basically a waste (grin)."

"It's weird, everyone is so affectionate, who is lying (confused)?"

"I'm also confused. (Picking nose))"

"Okay, okay, I'm lying. (Dog head)"

Hahahaha. (End of this chapter)