I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Raymond Lam: "We are all working part-time, so there is no need for that.
It's just like the neighborhood security guard trying to stop the takeaway guy.
Actually, it's not easy for both of you, you are both at the bottom of society. You said that letting someone in for a while won't affect you.
You check the information and register normally, and let him deliver the takeaway, right?

The delivery guy comes out in the same way. You come out and give a cigarette to the security guard. Everyone loves each other. Isn't that good? It doesn't affect anything.

They have to use their little power to make things difficult for others, not letting them in and asking the owner to come down and get the takeaway themselves.

Aren't you just looking for trouble? You have to make things difficult for others.

What are you doing?

. . . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"The security guards nowadays don't even recognize themselves (laughing to death)."

"The security guard got so angry that the owner refused to let him in (dog head)."

"I drove home, but the security guard wouldn't let me into the community. I beat him for more than ten minutes, and he trembled every time he saw me (sunglasses)."

Cow batch!

Hahahaha.

“Me: If you don’t want the delivery guy to deliver it, then you can deliver it (smile).”

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. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Just like when you are at work, your leaders have assigned you your own tasks, so just do your own work.

After receiving a salary of 3000 yuan, I spend time with my wife and children after work, have barbecue, and have midnight snacks.

Why are you fighting with others?

The only way people can really make money is to make money through harmony.

Try not to offend anyone if you can.

You guys are earning some hard-earned money down there, but you're still thinking about how to mess with the other person and how to win something in this area every day.

What are you doing?

The bosses can’t stand it anymore, can you be more united?
We are all here to work, why do we mess with each other?

How much salary do you earn per month?
It's just a job, you don't have to do it.

What are you fighting about every day?
Your miserable life is all caused by fighting."

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Those who can make money do so by being harmonious (thumbs-up).”

"This job costs lives, hahahahahaha it's so funny."

"A life of hardship is caused by fighting... I have learned this. From now on, harmony brings wealth. I will never fight again."

"But what should I do if my temper gets worse after I start working? (Awkward)."

"Don't say that. I'm a waiter and I wish I could take care of all the customers (dog head)."

"Which restaurant are you from? I'll just go around (grin)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Just like before, there was a person asking a question on the public screen, and I didn’t answer him.

His problem was that in a market, a stall was sold to two people and the bids were given to two people.

He said, "Brother, how can I get rid of this person? How can I get rid of him?"

I saw it but I ignored him.

why?
Dude,

This is violating the market rules, okay?

Besides, both of you are street vendors, which is not easy.

Why don't you two work together to find the market? Or else I'll transfer you to another position or give you an extra stall, right?
Instead of looking for a market, you two got involved.

How can I get him away, brother?

Two stinky street vendors are fighting to the death, and the market doesn't have to take any responsibility.

I am really impressed by you guys.”

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette.

okay,

Please welcome the next cow and horse.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

Another girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, what's the problem?"

Girl: "My husband and I actually divorced last year.

Then during the divorce process, he kept asking for reconciliation.

I thought that for the sake of the child, I agreed to get back together with him.

Because my daughter is severely depressed, and I am moderately depressed.
For the sake of the children, we can't just keep quarreling, so I agreed to get back together.

Originally, I could have gone back home to live with them, since I married far away.

Now that we've reconciled, I took my daughter back to live with them.

But in fact, the breakdown of our relationship has a lot to do with his father.

Because his father was involved too much.

My husband is a very opinionated person. You can’t say anything to him, and he won’t listen even if you do.

This time when I brought my daughter back home, his father was very unhappy because I brought a dog back home, and we had another fight over this.

My husband's good friends all knew what kind of person his father was, so they advised us to move out and live on our own.
Just don't live with the elderly, live your own life.

So I rented a house next to my daughter's school.
We agreed that we would live together as a family, but now I am the only one raising my daughter, and my husband doesn’t come over.”

Lin Feng raised his hand to interrupt: "That's enough, I've heard enough.
What I want to say is that your husband is a man of his own opinion. He won't listen to anything you say.
So why can't you also be a person with your own opinions?
As soon as his friend told you to move out, you moved out.
it's good now,

You and your daughter moved out, and your husband doesn't come.

What kind of remarriage is this?"

Woman: “I…”

Raymond Lam: "Don't talk yet, just listen to me. In fact, life ultimately comes down to attitude.

Sometimes it’s not others who make things difficult for you, but you who torture yourself.

Just like what I asked you just now, your husband is so opinionated, can’t you have your own opinion at home?
The dog has been brought back, and your father-in-law is very dissatisfied. So what?

Well, I won’t go out, I’ll just keep it.

What can you do?
If you really throw it away, it doesn't matter if I make a fuss.

Anyway, I'm in good spirits.

Do you understand?
How others treat you often depends on your own attitude.

If you compromise with others once or twice, others will not respect you.

If you say you don’t want to raise it, does that mean I won’t raise it either?

Wouldn’t it be fine to just leave it there?
When I was a kid, I saw kittens and puppies wandering around on the way home from school. My mother told me not to pick them up because I couldn’t take care of them.

If you say you don’t want to pick it up, then don’t pick it up?

I'll pick it up.
If I see one, I'll take it home.

If you really bring him home, what else can your mother do?
If you can raise it, raise it yourself.

If she really can’t raise the cats and dogs, my mother will contact her friends and give the cats and dogs to her friends.

Do the kittens and puppies have a home now?
Next time my mother scolds me, I promise not to hug her anymore.

Next time I see it, I will bring it back.

Then my mother would have to find a friend to send the baby to her friend’s house to be raised.

Is this the truth?
What are you worried about?

Why are you so obedient and why are you so burdened?
If someone says they don’t want to raise a child, then they shouldn’t raise the child?

Will you compromise if someone is mean to you?

If you are mean to me, I will fight back. If I can’t win, I will cry.

Anyway, remember,
As long as you have no moral sense, or lower your moral sense, you will feel great. "

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"It would be great if my moral sense were lowered a little, hahahaha."

"Really, the sense of morality is too strong, it's quite internal."

"Big Brother's famous quote: It is better to go crazy and waste others' energy than to waste your energy internally (dog head)."

He has to be the eldest brother.

Hahahaha.

"If you say you won't pick it up, then don't pick it up. I will pick up stray puppies if I see them next time (dying of laughter)."

"Hahaha, bro has always been a stable person since he was young (thumbs-up)."

"Hey, my mom also doesn't allow me to have a dog. If I had his mindset before, I would have had a puppy a long time ago."

+1
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Woman: "Brother is not like that. I don't blame them because everyone's personality is definitely different.

It was his father who would curse at people when he was drunk. I had suffered this for many years, so the breakdown of our relationship was actually largely related to this.”

Lin Feng waved his hand and said, "You didn't understand, sister-in-law.
Let him curse.

Give him a trumpet.
Open the door and let him go out and curse.

If I am really detained, my family will be able to have peace for two days.

Or you can close the door of your room and play King of Glory with your kids or watch Douyin.
You love to curse and make trouble.

It doesn't matter.

Anyway, it’s not our home, it’s my father-in-law’s home.

And to be honest, they've been drinking. If you're really hard to talk to, what's wrong with me just saying a few words to you?
If your hometown is in the countryside, you must have seen many fathers-in-law who are afraid of their daughters-in-law.

They were also drunk, so why didn't they dare to scold their wives?
Because my wife is a bitch. Don't laugh.

Some people say that she is a shrew in the countryside, and there is a reason for it.

Because if you are not a shrew, if you do not have such a strong character, you will not be able to stabilize that family.
Some fathers-in-law are really bad, and they really mess around when they are drunk.

My wife is useless.

But why did he become obedient as soon as his daughter-in-law came?
As soon as his ears were pulled, he went into the house and went to sleep obediently.

People are divided into soft and hard types.
He was just drunk, he was not without intelligence.

When he is really drunk, he will completely black out and have no memory. He will just fall asleep or become confused.

Anyone who is still able to act crazy and curse at others when drunk is actually using the smell of alcohol to release his evil.

He knows who is easy to mess with and who is not.

When someone arrives, you can control your temper and give him face.

No matter who comes, I don't need to give him face...

He knows everything.

Having been drinking for so many years, I have a deep understanding of this.

So don’t give him face.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Give him a horn hahahaha."

"Big brother has too many dirty tricks. Haha, it's so funny."

"Rural wives are all fierce and aggressive. Hahahaha. It is true that good parents-in-law must first have good daughters-in-law. They become stronger when they meet strong ones (covering their face)."

"If you don't act violently, you can't survive. There are many such people in our village."

"Even when drunk, people are different. What big brother said is right. They are all drunk."

"It was my first time watching Big Brother's live broadcast, and I got a lot of benefits (pen refills)."

. . . . . .

Woman: "But I can't help it, because it has been like this for many years, so my daughter is also depressed because of her grandfather's incident, so I moved..."

Lin Feng: “No, no, no, don’t make excuses.

You didn't teach her how to deal with it.

What I am giving you now is a plan. You have been complaining all the time. Now that I have given you a plan, you'd better do it.

On the contrary, my daughter thinks this is quite fun.

Grandpa used to curse when he was drunk, but after my mom did this, he became quieter.

On the contrary, my daughter thought it was quite fun.

He was beaten up by his mother in no time.

On the contrary, she thinks that her grandpa is very cute even though he is very young.

The fact is that you have been avoiding and sending negative energy to your daughter.

It's not that grandpa has a great influence on her, it's your attitude of avoiding and complaining when facing things.

I subtly let my emotions run wild in front of my daughter.

This is why my daughter is now severely ill."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"You didn't teach her how to deal with it... That's a very good point."

"To the point!"

"To put it bluntly, this sister is too soft and I am not strong enough."

"Yes, the daughter may have become angry because she saw her mother being bullied. The mother stood up and dealt with the old man, and the daughter naturally got better."

"Big brother is very clear-headed. I feel like he will never be led astray by what others say."

"Really? I was shocked when I heard that. It turned out to be my mother's problem."

“Mothers amplify their children’s anxiety.”

Clicked.

. . . . . .

The woman was silent for a while and then said, "Maybe it's like what my eldest brother said. I am indeed a little weak, so I escape.

The current situation is that my daughter and I have moved out, but my husband won’t come over.”

Lin Feng: "Don't think about him coming over, if he could come over, he would have come over long ago.

You also said that your husband has his own ideas and he won't change because of what you said.

In that case, you just need to go back.

When you go back, your parents-in-law may cook a meal for you and your daughter, and you can eat it for free. It's a convenience, right?
Anyway, it's impossible for you to ask me to cook.

If my father-in-law drinks, he will go crazy again.
Just do as I say and answer him twice.

You said you have a weak character and can't stand up.

It's ok.

The weak are the ones who use the Tao.
We don't have to use force, we have our own advantages.

I'm fucking drunk.
You scold me,
I just cried.

Open the door and sit on the ground crying.

The neighbors just laugh at the joke.

Your husband doesn't care anyway.

As long as my emotions are out, it doesn't matter.

The shame is brought to your family, what should I be afraid of?
If the old lady next door sees you, she will come over to comfort you and help you up.

Just catch them and tell them.

They are the ones who are embarrassed.

If someone doesn't care about you, why should you care about him?
Just remember it.
When emotions are expressed, the individual becomes healthy.

I am healthy both physically and mentally, so what's the point of being a jade girl? "

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"If you scold me I will cry. I will open the door and sit on the ground and cry. Hahahaha."

"The weak are the best. Weakness overcomes strength. Big brother is awesome."

"Listening to him speak, you can really learn the essence."

"I suddenly realized my mother's wisdom. My mother likes to cry. When she cries, my father, grandfather and the whole family will comfort her. My mother no longer has to do housework."

"Good fellow, our mother also reads Laozi?"

Hahahaha.

. . . . . .

Woman: "But my daughter doesn't want to go back either."

Lin Feng: “Damn, we’re back to square one again.

sister in law,

Don't always use your daughter as an excuse to avoid your own affairs.

I said, when you can solve these problems and provide your daughter with a positive emotional guide, your daughter will not escape.

Teach your children to solve problems; avoiding them will not solve the problem.

What will you do when your daughter enters society in the future?

What should you do if you encounter a boss with a bad temper?

What should you do if you encounter a bad-tempered customer?

Is it useful to keep avoiding?
Oh shit,

Who is in this comment section?

Don’t live with the elderly, move out if you feel uncomfortable, and don’t listen to the host’s nonsense.

You got a fucking brain full of shit.

If you can't figure it out, please don't say that nonsense.

If she stays away from her, she will be fine. Is she using the Internet to connect now?
If she is living a good life now after being away from each other, why should she complain here?

The fact is that she took her daughter away, and what was the result?

One is moderately jaded, the other is heavily jaded.

If escaping worked for her, she wouldn't have to waste her time on internal issues.

Don't listen to the anchor's nonsense.

A bunch of idiots,
He has the brain of a pig."

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"A bunch of idiots, their brains are like pigs, hahahaha."

"Who are you scolding, brother? (confused)."

"Just those black guys just now, hahaha."

"Brother, didn't you see the quarrel on the public screen just now? It turns out they were holding back their ultimate move (laughing to death)."

"Cold Fact: Big Brother's revenge never takes overnight (dog head)."

Hahahaha.

"But what Big Brother said is very right. If she could solve the problem by escaping, she wouldn't have wasted her time. Now that escaping can't solve the problem, she came here to seek Big Brother's help."

"Sisters have too weak energy. They can be affected by everything. It's really useless to escape. We must change our personality."

"Yuyu syndrome means you are too stifled to say anything or do anything. Consider other people's suggestions first, listen to your eldest brother, go crazy appropriately, and don't be too easy on the tongue."

"Really, just listen to Big Brother. Since you've asked, just do as Big Brother says." (End of this chapter)