I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 188: The Child Cannot Be Taught
Raymond Lam: "If you're not my friend, do you need me to teach you how to kiss?"

Boy: "But I don't think it's that point yet."

Lin Feng was furious: "It's not time yet, buddy. When will it be time? The girl has already released enough ambiguous signals.

On the first night, the girl said that you didn't respect her, and you said I could understand why you slept on the sofa.

The next night the girl also booked a king-size bed room.
That means the girl was just being reserved at first.

So you must muster up the courage to take the initiative. "

Boy: “But I have concerns.”

Lin Feng: "What are you worried about? Do you think the other party doesn't like you?"

"Correct."

Lin Feng: "Listen carefully, my lord. The military advisor will only teach you once. It's not even nine o'clock yet, and you sent a message to the girl after you got off the microphone.

Just tell her, I can’t sleep, I miss you so much, do you want to go out for a midnight snack? I’ll pick you up now.

The military advisor has already put the taste of the food in your mouth.
If you can't eat this,

You deserve to be single forever."

After saying that, Lin Feng kicked the boy down.

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Gouzi: "This kid has made the military advisor very anxious. This kid is incorrigible (dying of laughter)."

Brother Long: "One point for the loser group."

"Girl: Next one, this silly one might not work."

Hahaha.

Stranger: "What are you talking about? What are you talking about? The military advisor said he was a saint."

"I remember a certain brother who wanted to go home after sending a girl downstairs. The girl said, "Why don't you go upstairs and have some tea?" He said, "It's so late, I can't damage your reputation. That's good..." A few years later, when he thought of this incident, he wanted to slap himself a few times. We always laughed at him for this and said, "Go upstairs and sit down."

"Go up and sit down, hahaha."

"What a reincarnation of Buddha."

"Girl: I had a terrible fever, but he asked me what was wrong (grin)."

"Burn it up (dog head)"

"38 degrees (sunglasses)"

Hahahaha.

. . . . .

Hang up the mic,
Raymond Lam said to the live studio:
“Brothers,

Do you feel that this guy is as conservative as someone from the Qing Dynasty?

Don't laugh,

In fact,
There are quite a few boys like this in life.

Including many brothers in our room,

Don't be fooled by the clacking sound of the keyboard.
In life, many people may be introverted and honest. They feel that they cannot find a girlfriend or even think they are not good at falling in love.

In such cases,

Many people may say that honest people are not good at speaking and have no sense of humor.

But the military advisor tells you today.

This is all bullshit.

In modern society, honest people and introverted personalities seem to have become derogatory terms.

But the reality is definitely not like this.

I tell you,
In love, being honest and introverted is not a disadvantage, but an advantage in many cases.

Some brothers may not agree.

You may ask why many honest people in real life can’t find girlfriends?

The answer is simple.

That's because you won't take advantage of it.

So what exactly is this advantage?

Just four words: know when to stop.

In psychology, there is something called the Hedgehog Principle.

It emphasizes that there should be a psychological distance between people.

To put it simply, it means being sensible, knowing the limits, and having a sense of boundaries.

Like a hedgehog.

Because hedgehogs will huddle together to keep warm in winter, but they have thorns on their bodies, so they can't get too close, otherwise they will hurt each other.

As for introverted boys, they are born to keep their distance. They are born knowing how to perceive the feelings of the opposite sex through details.

Take confession for example, an introverted guy will never confess his love to a girl after knowing her for just a few days.

They will feel that this is inappropriate.

So when they meet a girl they like, they usually remain silent or make fun of themselves.
Hey, forget it, it’s actually pretty good this way.

If you maintain this mentality for a long time, girls will gradually lose interest in you and eventually leave you.

But most introverted boys don’t realize that before a girl leaves you, you have already gained her trust.

Because you have never done anything that crosses the line, you have already created a very comfortable social distance without realizing it.

This kind of distance is what girls like very much.
Once you enter this state, further upgrading the relationship will definitely be twice the result with half the effort.

But unfortunately, this kind of boys can't grasp such opportunities. Just like the guy just now.

The ambiguous atmosphere is actually enough.

At this time, you just need to confess your love boldly and the two of you will be together.

But many people don’t realize this, so they don’t know how or dare not confess.

At this time, girls will think that this boy may not have any special feelings for me.

Even if she may feel your affection, but you don't show it obviously, she will feel that you don't like her that much.

They may even suspect that you are raising fish.

Plus, she’s a girl, so she might be naturally more reserved.

So in the end, the two people had to let it go.

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Lying trough,

So this is ah!

"I said I dated a few girls, and each of them said I was nice, but in the end we all stopped contacting each other."

"After five months of flirting, she finally found her new boyfriend."

"Brother, the military advisor said that the longest period of ambiguity is two months. Five months is not ambiguity, it's called raising fish."

what?
I'm new here.

"Be good, sit down and listen to the class carefully."

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: "If some buddies really can't say this last sentence, then this is the only last resort.

Turn passivity into initiative.

What does that mean?

Let me give you an example. If you talk to a girl about her favorite food, you can just ask her out to dinner together.

If there is a good movie, just ask her to go watch it together.

In a word, just treat yourself as a girl's best friend and get along with her like that, and the girl will definitely not refuse.

In the end, you will find that girls start to actively chat with you, ask you out to play, and develop a sense of dependence on you.

At this point, brothers, you don’t need me to teach you what to do the rest.

of course,

You have to grasp the balance here.
Don't end up turning yourself into a bootlicker.

okay,

Next one.

Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Hello, do you have any emotional problems?"

"Military Advisor, I have been with my boyfriend for three months, and we always discuss some very serious topics when we are together.

Boys and girls have different opinions, so he kept trying to convince me.

So inevitably there will be some arguments, and in the end neither of us wants to talk to each other anymore.”

Raymond Lam: "Tell me, what topics do you discuss?

"It's about women's rights, and LGBT."

Lin Feng laughed: "You two are so awesome, why don't you discuss the Israeli-Palestinian conflict?"

Well. . .

. . .

On the barrage

Women's Rights and LGBT

I'm kidding!

"They are using our home as a court to sue each other?"

"No, I understand women's rights, but what is lgbt?"

Popular science: LGBT refers to the X minority group, and each letter represents a group.

L means female.

G stands for gay.

B means double.

T means to become an x ​​person.

"In summary: LGBT means 'come be a pervert' (dog head)."

Frog fun!

“I don’t understand, but I respect.”

“No understanding and no respect (smile).”

"Not understanding, not respecting, and discriminating (dog head)."

"Not only do they not understand, they do not respect, they discriminate and slander (Sunglasses)."

You~this~
Hahahaha.

(End of this chapter)