I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 169 Go and Grind the Mill

Lin Feng: "Brother, you can go and persuade your mother."

"But what about your mother?
Or they will deny it and tell you to leave it alone.

Or they would say that she had her own reasons for doing so.

But no matter what she says, you just need to persuade her.

Just a reminder.

After giving the reminder, don’t get involved in your parents’ affairs.

Don't get too involved in your mother's emotions or emotional state.

Don't even agree with anything she tells you about the situation between her and your dad.
What you need to do is to draw an emotional boundary with your parents.

Remember one sentence,

They are them and you are you.

You just need to do what you should do and try not to be affected by them.

Your parents are adults. They have their own way of dealing with things and their own causes and consequences.

As a child, you cannot interfere with their cause and effect, nor can you decide their marriage.

This is not your responsibility, and you don’t have the ability to do so.

Not because you're only 17.

Because as children we didn’t have this ability.”

. . . .

On the barrage.

"Yes, parental love is really powerless."

"Maybe she's not a good wife, but she's a good mother. We have no ability, no qualifications, and no position to lecture her."

"If you hold on for another year, maybe your father will leave your mother because he is waiting for you to become an adult and go to college."

"Your words of waiting until you grow up made me burst into tears."

"There are indeed many parents who wait for their children to take the college entrance examination before ending their marriage."

Ugh!
. . . . .

Raymond Lam: “My parents’ relationship may have something to do with the background of the times, or the way they have been getting along for decades.

Don't treat your parents as great heroes. We have to admit that everyone has flaws and bad sides.
In fact, there are many problems that parents need to face. Don’t always take on your parents’ problems yourself.

remember,

You have your own problems to focus on.”

"Thank you, Military Advisor. I understand."

The boy left.

Hang up the mic,
Raymond Lam went to the live broadcast room and said:
“Brothers,

The military advisor is also powerless to solve this problem.

The love of our fathers,

Many of them are arranged by matchmakers and parents.

In the early days, marriage came before love.

So what do you think we should do if there is a problem in their relationship?

The brave choose divorce.
The cowardly person chose to compromise and lived his whole life turning a blind eye.

We can only use the unfortunate marriages of our parents as a warning to ourselves.
In your next relationship, you have to choose someone you love.

So as not to repeat the mistakes of our parents.

This is also the reason why I often advise people to break up instead of reconcile in the live broadcast room.

Because after decades of marriage, everyone has their own share of trivial matters.

If there is no love to support it,
It is easy to have problems.

By then, it won't just be you who will be hurt, it will likely be two or even three generations.

okay,

This topic is too heavy.
We can't discuss this anymore.

Just 13,000 popularity,
Just kill two thousand of them.

Hey!
Next next.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

It's a boy.

Raymond Lam: "Hello buddy, do you have any emotional problems?"

"Military Advisor, I'm 28 and she's 27. We're broken up now, but I just can't figure it out."

Raymond Lam: "How long have you been together?"

"About three years."

Raymond Lam: "What's the reason for the breakup?"

"No reason, just breaking up."

???

Lin Feng: "Brother, what's there to analyze about this? If someone doesn't even want to think of an excuse to break up with you, then that means they don't love you anymore."

"But I feel like we still have feelings for each other, otherwise we wouldn't have been together for three years. It's just that she likes to break up a lot, and we've broken up more than a dozen times in those three years."

Lin Feng laughed: "Brother, you think that the other party comes back after breaking up because they can't bear to leave you and can't leave you.
But is it possible that the other party has looked around for a while and couldn't find anyone better, so they can only make do with you?"

The boy was silent.

. . . . .

On the barrage. Holy shit!

"My ex-girlfriend broke up with me several times and came back to me. She wasn't using me as a pretext, was she?"

"Remember buddy, no one comes back to love you again."

"Then if the abandoned person comes back, will he come back to love you well?"

"No, I came here for revenge (dog head)."

what?
Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Boy: "Military Advisor, let me tell you, we have been together for three years. At the beginning, it was love at first sight, and then we were together.

She doesn't have a job, so I'm the one supporting her.

There were a few quarrels and breakups and reunions in between, but the separations were never too long.

Sometimes it lasted a week, sometimes half a month, and the longest breakup lasted almost three months.

Later I found out that her family suddenly introduced her to a blind date.

She dated that person for three months, but she felt that they were not suitable for each other, so she broke up. "

Lin Feng was speechless.

“Man, people in relationships cannot be described as cheap, because people who take relationships seriously are noble.

But you can’t break up with someone a dozen times and then come back to you, and you still agree, right?
Not bro,

Tell me the truth.

When you broke up, did she steal your original Apple data cable? "

Uh. .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

《Apple original data cable》

"After all this trouble, I just want to get my data cable back."

I fuck

I laughed so hard!

Hahahaha.

"You guys are just joking, but my ex-boyfriend really took my original Apple data cable (grin)."

"They also took away my charger (crying)."

It’s quite expensive.

"Hahaha sorry."

"I'll do the opposite. After we broke up, I stole his original charger, earphones and other things (sunglasses)."

"My ex-girlfriend took away 3 of my watches and my hamster (angry)."

unbelievable!

Hahahaha.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Come on, buddy, let's stop wasting time. We've broken up more than a dozen times in three years. If I really let you finish talking about them one by one, it would be the morning already. Just talk about the last breakup."

Boy: "The last time, we agreed not to break up easily again. We were planning to get married, so we bought rings and took wedding photos.

Is it because my family is abroad?

My family wanted us to go abroad.

But she has three dogs, so it would be troublesome to take them out together.

I said I would leave first, and when I arrived, I would arrange for you all to come over.

During the New Year's Eve,
We spent New Year's Eve together.

The day after New Year's Eve, she suddenly told me that she wanted to break up.

He deleted me by the way.

Let me think about it and forget it.

Also accepted the reality.

But less than half a month later, she suddenly called me and told me the specific situation.
It turned out that two days after the New Year's Eve, a friend whom she had only met once 10 years ago suddenly added her and asked her out for dinner.

After that, they went out to eat together and they were together that night.

She told me that she was just in a state of excitement and didn't know what she was doing.
She also said that she had no money now and she couldn't bear to spend that person's money, so I transferred some money to her.

Then she sent me that little emoticon.

She said she didn't mean she could spend anyone's money, she meant she could spend my money.

I feel a little better now.”

???

Good job, sir!!
Raymond Lam: "You are just a donkey pulling a millstone, skinny and bony."

When she is with you, she rides you to find a horse.
After separating from you, I still make you grind the mill.

You're a pure working donkey.

You are a worthless person.

never mind,

Say nothing,
Go and grind the mill!"

(End of this chapter)