Daddy Academy

Chapter 2968 Self-Sacrifice Mode
Tan Jiner and the female doctor were sitting in the next room, observing Xier's behavior through the surveillance camera.

In the camera, Xiao Xiaobai came out of his food toy house holding a piece of meat, strolled into Xier's place, and shouted that he wanted to give Xier a piece of meat to eat. By the way, he asked Xier if she had any carrots that she didn't eat, and gave her one, because she loved carrots so much and her own one was not enough.

It turned out that they were here to exchange food.

Xier readily gave the carrot to Xiao Xiaobai, and the little guy happily returned to his own little house. But after a while, the little guy wandered over again, asking Sister Xier whether she wanted to eat rice or noodles.

"What do you want to eat?" Xier did not answer, but asked back.

Xiao Xiaobai said: "I want to eat noodles because I want to become a noodle man."

"hiahiahia~ Then I want to eat rice. Here you go, take it."

"Thank you, Sister Xiwawa~"

Xiao Xiaobai happily ran away holding Miao Tiao.

In front of the camera, the female doctor didn't know whether to laugh or cry, and said to Tan Jin'er: "We can't let this little guy disturb Xi'er anymore, otherwise the experiment will have no effect."

Tan Jin'er didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "I'll go tell Xiao Xiaobai."

She got up and walked to the next room, bent down and squatted in front of Xiao Xiaobai's food toy house. The door was not closed, and she said to the busy little friend inside: "Xiao Xiaobai, what are you busy with?"

Xiao Xiaobai, who was busy, looked at her and laughed: "I'm busy, I'm cooking, Sister Jin'er, I'll treat you to lunch, what do you want to eat?"

Tan Jin'er smiled and said, "I'm quite full now, so you can just cook for yourself. I want to tell you a rule, which is that you can't keep visiting other people while you're cooking..."

Xiao Xiaobai immediately promised that she would never plagiarize Xier, and Tan Jiner left. As soon as she stood up, Xier from next door poked her head out and invited her to sit in her toy house.

Tan Jiner repeatedly declined the little sister's enthusiasm and then returned to the next room.

Without Xiao Xiaobai's interruption, Xier was finally immersed in the fun of playing house.

I saw her picking food in the supermarket swiftly, then returning to the kitchen, putting on an apron, and starting to cook.

Seeing how skilled she was at cooking, the female doctor asked Tan Jiner, "Does Xier usually help with cooking at home?"

Tan Jiner said: "She likes to help me."

The female doctor asked, "Does she always hope to be able to help you?"

Tan Jiner thought about it and said, yes.

The female doctor wrote it down in her notebook and continued to stare at the screen intently.

As for Xiao Xiaobai next door, no one paid attention to him anymore. Because the little guy was lying in the kitchen playing with the baby crocodile, with his bulging belly facing the sky, and seemed to have lost interest in cooking all of a sudden...

Tan Jiner observed carefully, but did not find anything abnormal about the little sister. She was the same as usual.

The female doctor next to him was watching with great interest, and was writing something down in her notebook from time to time.

Perhaps he noticed Tan Jin'er's confusion, so he explained: "Jin'er, you must have noticed that when Xi'er was choosing food in the supermarket just now, didn't she hold a lot of ingredients?"

Tan Jiner recalled the scene just now and nodded and said yes.

The female doctor pointed at Xier in the camera and said, "Look at Xier. She only cooked two dishes, and she stored all the remaining ingredients. If she couldn't use them all, why did she take so many ingredients?"

Tan Jin'er was stunned for a moment and said, "You mean Xi'er is afraid of starving? Has a sense of crisis?"

The female doctor nodded: "This is called scarcity fear."

"But she has never been hungry since she was a child. Although her life was difficult, she had enough food and clothing."

"You don't have to be hungry to have a fear of scarcity. For children who mature early, they are actually clear about the financial situation of their families. When their families are in trouble, they will also feel anxious. Don't think that children are carefree and innocent."

These words silenced Tan Jiner.

The female doctor continued, "You see her distributing food between the baby and herself."

Tan Jin'er looked at the camera and saw Xi'er placed a rag doll in front of the dining table. She and the doll each had a bowl with food in it.

The female doctor said, "Have you noticed that Xier gives a lot of food to the baby, but very little to herself?"

Tan Jin'er did notice that Xi'er's own food was only about half of the doll's.

The little guy was still coaxing the baby to eat his meal in a soft voice.

Moreover, there was a lot of meat and vegetables in the baby's bowl, but he only had two pieces of meat and some vegetables.

The female doctor said, "Xier, is this also the case when you eat at home? She advises you to eat more and frequently serves you food, but she eats less, with a smaller portion and fewer dishes."

Tan Jin'er had already realized something. She whispered, "She always says she can't eat that much."

The female doctor nodded silently and said nothing more.

Tan Jiner asked: "Why does my sister have this mentality?"

The female doctor said: "Because she feels she is unworthy."

"what?"

Tan Jiner widened her eyes in disbelief.

The female doctor said: "The proportion of food distribution can be used to quantify self-worth. The amount of food Xier adds to herself is less than half of what Wawa gives her. In other words, her subconscious self-evaluation of her worthiness is less than 50%."

Tan Jin'er couldn't believe it: "Does she think she doesn't deserve to eat so much?"

The female doctor said: "It can be said that she is in a self-sacrificing mode. However, this is just a single behavior we saw this time, so we cannot draw a complete conclusion. It is better to observe for a long time to be more accurate."

But Tan Jin'er has already believed this statement, because Xier always thinks of giving things to other children first, whenever there is something delicious or fun. Although she likes it too, her priority is always after others. She will only think of herself after satisfying other children!
She had educated her little sister many times for this, and she had also seen Xiaobai educate Xier many times. Every time Xiaobai found out, he would put the thing back into Xier's arms and not allow her to give it to others.

When Tan Jin'er faced her sister's self-sacrificing mode for the first time, she couldn't help but want to cry.

It's all his own fault.

"This, what should I do?"

The doctor said: "Don't worry, I will make a plan, but it will take a long treatment process. After all, psychology is the most difficult to change."

Tan Jin'er said firmly: "I will fully cooperate. I will do whatever you ask me to do."

"We should not underestimate the seriousness of the problem, but we should not put too much pressure on her either. Fortunately, Xier is still young and has a cheerful personality. She has made many friends, which is good for her mental health."

What the female doctor didn’t say was that it was a good thing that Xier had so many friends, otherwise the problem would have been even more serious.

The children she came into contact with who were stuck in similar self-sacrificing modes were generally accompanied by depression, loneliness, introversion, etc. In severe cases, they even suffered from schizophrenia, which ruined their lives.

And the Tan Xier in front of us has always had a smile on her face since she came here. She has a lively and cheerful personality. She will take the initiative to say hello when she sees company employees and is not at all shy.

Tan Jiner agreed: "She knew Xiaobai and the others when she was over three years old. She usually played with Xiaobai. They were very close. They met every day, went to school and did homework together... all thanks to Xiaobai."

She couldn't help but feel scared, but fortunately she accidentally sent Xier to the Little Red Pony Late Night Academy, where Xier met Xiaobai, Liuliu, Dudu and a group of other friends, who were Xier's most precious treasure.