Two cute babies: Mr. Si loves his wife too much

"Before my mother reunited with my stepfather, I didn't feel that my mother cared about my appearance and body.

Maybe it's because no one here knows us, so even if someone saw her, she would just think she was an ordinary housewife.

No one will pay attention to her appearance and figure.Because the vast majority of housewives are like this. They are busy washing, cooking and taking care of their children all day long, and they have no time for maintenance.

My mother's haggard appearance without makeup shows that she has suffered a lot.We are all housewives. Only those who have experienced it will understand how much heartache and helplessness they have endured in order to maintain a family.

Why don't they work hard all day long for their children and their families?Where is the time to take care of yourself?So seeing my mother like this can instantly make them feel like they are "the same people who have fallen into the world", and it is too late to take care of us, so naturally no one will intentionally trouble us.

This kind of atmosphere made my mother feel a kind of warmth that she had never experienced before, so she really saw it a lot later, and gradually adapted to this environment, adapted to this kind of life, and accepted her passed away. youth.

Of course, if my mother really wants to lose weight and return to her original figure, it is not impossible.It's just that, as the saying goes, 'a medicine is three-point poisonous', the more powerful the medicine, the more side effects it will have.

And the reason why my mother didn't do this at the beginning was because I
When I was still in my mother's womb, I was born obese under the influence of my mother's medicine.Although I am late in understanding, it is not that my mother is ignorant of this society.

It's okay at home, everyone pampers me, it's impossible for anyone to laugh at me.But once you enter school, you will be laughed at by other children.

Maybe those ridicules weren't really hostile, it was just a child's outspokenness, but as the person involved and a child, trying to make me stop caring about this matter from the bottom of my heart is almost tantamount to forcing someone to do it.

Therefore, my mother chose to continue to gain weight.Only in this way, when I was ridiculed by others, she could use the excuse of 'we are a mother and daughter, so I just look like her, not some weird person' to make me stop taking those words to heart.

My mother said at the time that those who laugh at me are the ones who are really "rare and more weird". Comparing with them has simply lowered my level, so I don't care about them and ignore them as transparent people. It is the best punishment for them.

Facts have proved that this trick of my mother is really effective.

Because that was my mother, and of course I believed what she said.

So I grew up, no matter which school I was in, no matter how many mocking and sarcastic voices I heard, I didn't take it to heart, I didn't have low self-esteem, and I wasn't unhappy.I just lived in my own little world, until"

When she said this, Ai Nien seemed to wake up suddenly from her memories, and she stopped speaking abruptly, and then realized that she was deceiving herself even more, so she smiled awkwardly and said, "I'm sorry, I just suddenly realized that I It seems to be a bit off-topic. Oh, you all know that I am a person who speaks like this. I am long-winded and think of what to say. I often deviate from the topic. I hope you don’t mind.”