Two cute babies: Mr. Si loves his wife too much

Speaking of this, Ai Nien smiled lightly, but the bitterness and sadness revealed in this smile made this smile more distressing than direct tears.
Su Qian and Xue Mengyao also roughly understood at this time, but they both agreed tacitly and did not disturb, it is best for Ai Nien to take this opportunity to say all the words she has been depressed for many years, so as to make her bear it in her heart Sadness and anger are vented.

"I've just said that a big family like the Si family's Ling family is at most '30 years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi'. It is almost impossible to completely overthrow and 'remove' from this circle.

Because the foundations of these families that have been handed down for hundreds of years are there, and each family is "luxuriantly branched and leafy".People in a big family are indeed of the same ancestor, and the blood flowing in their bodies is all related by true blood.

However, because it is a family, it is divided into many branches, each with its own development and power.In a family like this, in fact, there is no distinction between the main branch and the side branch by default.

Everyone relies on their own abilities, and each generation of patriarchs must be recognized by the majority of the family as the most powerful person, and only then can they sit on the position of patriarch.

Although everyone will inevitably have their own Xiao Jiujiu in their hearts, and people in each branch also hope that their family members can sit on the position of Patriarch, so everyone is only harmonious on the surface, and there will be more or less intrigues in secret.

However, they also know that the members of this entire big family are 'one prospers and one loses all', so even if people from different branches fight openly and covertly, they will not do things that go too far.

Besides, it is actually because of this that these big families have been able to pass on for so many years.Regardless of good times or bad times, the core strength and power can be preserved in the end, and the status of the family can be maintained all the time, and it will not fall from the "altar".

It can even be said that even when a certain family is in decline, its opponents cannot completely destroy the family.Because in this circle, they have tacitly accepted that there is a delicate balance.

The members of the major families are high and low according to their abilities, but if one party completely falls down, it will break the delicate balance.This kind of big family that has been passed down from generation to generation has too much interest.
However, it is impossible for everyone to sit together and calmly divide the 'cake' into perfectly even pieces and distribute them to everyone. This is the only result of human nature, so the only result will be the scene of madly grabbing the cake for profit.

Once a certain family swallows too much 'cake', the delicate balance in this circle will be broken, and it may even cause a certain family's strength to increase sharply, and thus become the tyrant in this circle forever. The desired outcome of the family.

If the major aristocratic families were all short-sighted and disregarded the overall situation when they saw small profits in front of them, they would not have passed on from generation to generation and developed to this point.

Of course, there is another reason, that is, almost all the people in these big families are related.Even if someone really wants to completely eliminate a certain family, there will always be someone from other families to stop it.

After all, seeking common interests through vertical and horizontal alliances and commercial marriages can be regarded as the tacitly accepted way of union for all such aristocratic families. "