Please let go of the demon war

The father-in-law and mother-in-law have no reason to wash their hands and cook for her, and she has no reason to take care of them for the same reason.Don't ask too much from others, just like others don't ask yourself, just ask for peace of mind.

After Li Xiaoyan became pregnant, she almost raised her baby at her natal family. Chu Lingmo herself had been pregnant several times, knowing that pregnant women are the most hypocritical, so she allowed Li Xiaoyan to work at home with her salary, so as not to travel back and forth.

Li Xiaoyan is waiting to give birth at her natal home, and the two elders in her husband's family are very relieved. They just feel sorry for their son. In the past, the daughter-in-law could support herself when she went to work. Now that the daughter-in-law is not working, the burden is all on the son's shoulders.

Xue Feng was under a lot of pressure. He didn't have much savings in the early stage, and almost all the money was spent on the wedding, but it would be a pity if the child was beaten. In addition, if he had an abortion with Li Xiaoyan, she would ask him for a divorce.

Li Xiaoyan also probably understood what Xue Feng was struggling with, so he just let him go.So during the period when she was having a baby at her mother's house, she asked him not to come to Cengfan. The reason was that her parents had worked hard enough to take care of her, and it was tiring to prepare meals every day and wait for him to get off work!
Xue Feng is glad that he didn't lose the big because of small things, he loves Li Xiaoyan, even though he told her all his monthly salary and bonus, and handed over his bank card for her to keep, she didn't confiscate it, so he knew she was special , her independence made him feel insecure.

She would always shrewdly avoid her salary, and deal with him with the excuse that she worked leisurely and had a guaranteed minimum salary.

The first person Xue Feng met was Chu Lingmo. At the beginning, he didn’t know Li Xiaoyan at all, but Chu Lingmo, the boss, called him and said that he didn’t understand what he didn’t understand. He was more diligent when he went to their company. Mo was still a little familiar with the platform, she called him here just to train Li Xiaoyan, because she hired Xiao Xiami to manage the backstage by herself, the boss only wanted the result, the result of the inquiry and feedback.

After going back and forth, the two got to know each other. Xue Feng and Chu Lingmo couldn't spark each other, because Chu Lingmo didn't have much patience with him, and she always sent him off with one sentence: "Brother Feng, you're here! Just find Miss Li outside!"

In order to avoid the same embarrassment, he and Li Xiaoyan saved their contact information with each other, and then added WeChat to chat about platform data and work topics such as handling online complaints from customers.

Li Xiaoyan has no shortage of people to pursue, but she encounters difficulties at work. She tentatively asks Xue Feng, and he can answer them professionally.

At first, Xue Feng just thought that she was no different from others, and that she was easier to deal with.

Because many bosses are difficult to deal with, they always like to blame Alibaba. In fact, it is their employees who post some infringing keywords. If the points are deducted for complaints, call him immediately and say: You Alibaba is for buyers and not for sellers. It is our sellers who give you money. Buyers don’t have to pay annual fees, we all have to pay every year. It’s worth tens of thousands of dollars. If you do this to me, points will be deducted for this and that. What good will it do you if my shop is closed?
He can only hehehe, he has already circled the seller for the famous brand keywords that should be avoided. It is the boss himself who tells the newcomers not to be idle on the first day of work to send out product information, and does not explain to them in detail what to avoid. Who is to blame? ?

I can only repeat Ali's rules again and again. Although it is said that Ali collects money from the seller, why does the seller give money to Ali?It's not about earning the buyer's money.They receive money directly from the seller, yes, and the same can be said that they receive money indirectly from the buyer.

If Ali does not have certain rules, it is not that some unscrupulous suppliers just collect money, do not make goods, do not deliver goods, or produce goods without quality assurance, and it does not directly affect Ali's international reputation.

Sometimes Xue Feng occasionally complains in the circle of friends. She is not only a master of likes, but also a master of greetings, but let Xue Feng find a bosom friend, and slowly change the topic of chat from work to life.

Li Xiaoyan often belittles herself, saying that she is the company's handyman, but he doesn't believe it, otherwise how could Chu Lingmo entrust her with the full responsibility of the company's back office?She could only continue to prevaricate him because Chu Lingmo trusted her, or because the boss was lazy.

From the very beginning, Xue Feng knew that it was true that Chu Lingmo was impatient. After she talked about it, he gradually realized that Chu Lingmo really rarely came to the office. Every time he came to their company to return visits to clients, they would always answer that the boss was not there.

He would also ask where Chu Lingmo was going. Li Xiaoyan knew the general idea, but she and the three of them were not big talkers, so they just ended the topic by saying that the boss wanted to take care of the children.

Although he couldn't get an accurate answer, he still decided to marry Li Xiaoyan and go on.

Although he doesn't know her salary or her family background, as a man, he can't demand too much from her, especially when he is not a proud person.

He promised her when he proposed: "What's yours is still yours, and what's mine is yours!"

Li Xiaoyan accepted. She admitted that she was a selfish person, and she didn't want others to be together because of her salary and family background.

So she chose to hide, and after giving birth in the hospital, Xue Feng took her home, because his mother said that according to the rules set by the ancestors, confinement cannot be done in her mother's house, otherwise her mother's family will have some opinions.

Mother Li also told her daughter about this in advance, so Li Xiaoyan had to hire a confinement wife.

Xue Feng's mother said that she was extravagant, and she could just ask her parents to come here to take care of her. She had the same intentions both openly and secretly, and she felt sorry for his son's difficulty in earning money.

She would not save that little money, and said to Xue's mother: "I will pay for this money!"

Xue's mother actually wanted to hate her: My son didn't give you your money, and you didn't go to work for more than half a year, and you brazenly said that you paid for it yourself, shameless!Xue Feng grabbed his mother in time, his wife had just risked her life to give birth to a fat boy for him, and now she was reluctant to pay for the confinement money of more than 1 yuan, so he would really have no face to go to his mother-in-law's house in the future.

On the day of her confinement, when Xue Feng was about to give money to the confinement wife, the confinement wife declined and said, "I won't accept any of you. I was invited by Ms. Chu! She said it's an employee benefit!"

When Li Xiaoyan was preparing to invite her before giving birth, Chu Lingmo took the initiative to find her and told her that she had already helped her find a reliable confinement wife.She also asked the people in the confinement center herself, and the price in Jingcheng ranged from 3 to [-].Unexpectedly, the boss not only paid the money for her, but also said it was employee benefits.

She also plans to go back to work after two months of rest, to be worthy of the boss's good intentions.

Xue's mother also saw Yuesao confiscating her son's money with her own eyes, so she went out to wander around looking for poker friends to pass the time.

Xue's father has no right to speak at home, and he listens to Xue's mother in everything.

After Li Xiaoyan started to go to work, she didn't plan to ask her parents-in-law to take the child with her. She woke up every morning, washed and changed her clothes, and then drove her son to her natal home. Give more living expenses to the parents, lest the two of them see something and want to buy one for their grandson and worry because they have no money.

Since Xue Feng hadn't been to his mother-in-law's house for a meal for a long time, he felt ashamed to go there with his wife again.

Because his wife is expecting to give birth at her natal home, he just drives his wife to the hospital for a fetal examination, takes her to buy some maternity clothes, and prepares the child's clothes, shoes, diapers, baby stroller, toys, etc. in advance.He also knows that his wife will give the child to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, so he always buys a double copy of everything he buys, and prepares both ends.

He also gave money to his mother-in-law and said that it was the living expenses of his wife eating and drinking here, but the mother-in-law did not accept it this time.

He directly rejected him and said: "When the child is born, there are some places where money is needed. You keep it for yourself. Yanyan is our daughter. Naturally, the old man and I will not treat her as a pregnant woman badly, so you can relax!"

If his mother-in-law charged him a little money, he could still have the cheek to spend breakfast and dinner, but if she didn't charge him, he'd better eat outside.

Li Xiaoyan knew that he was a chauvinist, so she let him go, but her mother often asked her son-in-law why he didn't come over for dinner.

Once Li Xiaoyan's car had to be maintained, so he could only take his wife to and from get off work, and have a meal by the way.

Mother Li also took the opportunity to say: "I don't know what the two of you are fighting about. One eats at home and the other eats out. It's not like a family. Fengzi, you and Yanyan will come together tomorrow. Yanyan's car can be put in the garage!"

In this way, the two of them began to be a bit fair. He was responsible for the child's milk powder, diapers and clothes, and she was responsible for the food expenses for the parents and the family of three.

Every morning, Xue Feng drove the two of them to his mother-in-law's house. After the children were released and breakfast was eaten, they each drove to work. After get off work, they went back to Li's mother's house for dinner.

Li Xiaoyan barely sees her mother-in-law a few times a month, and the same goes for her children, who only kiss grandma and not grandma.

But Xue's mother is quite generous to the child. She will remember every birthday of the child, and will prepare a big red envelope in advance for Li Xiaoyan to pass on to her grandson.

Although she can't say that she hates Xue's mother, she really can't like her, so it's good to maintain a respectful relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

That Luo Wenwen was a crazy person. When Li Xiaoyan got married and had a baby, she panicked. She and Bai Ting were left in the dormitory.

After Li Xiaoyan came back to work after finishing her maternity leave, she heard that her boss hired a confinement lady for free. She wanted to get married. When Chu Lingmo came to the company one day, she pulled her boss and asked, "Momo, my favorite, Does it mean that you will help me hire a confinement wife when I get married and have children?"

Chu Lingmo nodded, and sarcastically said: "I still prefer your single appearance, you are easy to be deceived, so don't spend your whole life with this little employee benefit!"

She nodded, and after returning from get off work, she sent a WeChat message to the designer brother: "I heard that getting married is very cheap, 9 is fast and 9, I invite you, and our company has a benefit, that is, you can have a baby without money Please go to Yuesao to help take care of the mother and child!"

Zhu Wenbin on the other end was at a loss. When did he hint to her that he was going to marry her, and he replied with a rolling eye expression.